she doesnt have anything at all to do with me anymore....so would it still be like betrayal?
2006-12-24 10:04:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Uhh..yeah. I mean there are lots of men in the world. Find someone who hasn't already slept w/ someone you know...EW!
Why would you want to get in a relationship that has baggage from the get-go? Do you like drama or something? Bored? Desperate? ....Because that is what everyone will think of you if you start dating this guy.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I'm just being honest with you. It doesn't matter if you don't hang out w/ her that much anymore...you still know her, she knows you, and you knew them both as a couple when they were together...EW EW EW.
Even if a guy used to date someone I HATED I still don't think I'd go out w/ him...I'd find someone else. It's also not very classy to date someone who used to be with someone you know.
2006-12-24 10:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by brittany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like this will continue to cause major friction between you and the ex. So even though it's not really any of his business, insofar as you will be dealing with the ex for a long time, maybe attending the same events together, I would think long and hard about whether it's worth it to continue the relationship. But, if the best friend is the man you love, then go for it. With 4 kids, it isn't that easy to line up the next one, I'd imagine.
2016-05-23 04:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is anything wrong with dating a former friends ex-husband.
First of all, she is a former friend. If she doesn't have anything at all to do with you anymore, then she isn't a friend or even a casual acquaintance.
Secondly, it is her ex-husband so she probably doesn't have anything to do with him either.
One thing that I would put too you to think about, why is he her ex-husband? Why did they break up? Does he have a secret problem (Alcohol, drugs, cheating) that you will encounter if you start seeing him? IF he has done it once, he more than likely will do it again, especially if it is abuse. So be careful and think about why they aren't together now.
2006-12-24 10:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all might have agurments, but theres always a solution to everything in some positive way. Assuming this was a good friend of yours, I would not even try it. Because there is a very good chance there could be complications. But to go about this the right way I think it would be wise to talk to your friend... tell her how your feeling... and hopefully atleast get on good terms through understanding and talking to each other... and then see where it goes from there. Its just being respectful.
2006-12-24 10:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Royce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it would be WRONG, because even though she may not have anything to do with you, if you start dating the EX she is only going to wonder IF you had something going on while they were together, if cheating was an element in their demise.
Also, I would not want to be friends with someone who dates another friends EX. However, your not asking to be friends with me, this is just an opinion question anyway. I still say NO NO NO......its just wrong!
2006-12-24 10:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by bex920 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have ended your friendship with your friend, and I do not know why. How could it be a betrayal? Why did their marriage fail in the first place is the question you should be asking.
If both of you's feel the same way, and your other friends can deal with this, then all the power to yous both.
2006-12-24 10:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You will betrayal your friendship even you don't talk to her later on you could be friend and
it might hurt you in the future
That nasty you don't want your friend left-over.
Don't do it
even you like him or not.
Don't do it
2006-12-24 10:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Queen509 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
plzz advice from the wise dont do it, beleive it will wreck the friendship even thoug at first it may seem ok, find some other man there a lot of fish inthe sea
2006-12-24 10:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by i am a very sweet n honest girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I personally would never date a friend's ex, but if you don't care about her or her feelings then have at it...
2006-12-24 10:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your FRIEND why would you want to be involved with her ex-husband.its kind of hard to say ,because if you do get with him you may lose her friendship but in the other hand if you don't get with him you may miss the love of your life.talk to her about it and see what she says.its different strokes for different folks she may say she doesn't mind ,but at least you put it to her without hiding it.
2006-12-24 11:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋