Sometimes I act a fool because I think there must be some kinda catch. And then she's mad at me and I get scared that maybe she'll come to her senses and leave me. How can I keep her?
2006-12-24 09:57:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've given this a lot of thought. Let's assume you are right. You married way out of your league. Enjoy it man, and stop worrying about what the catch is or whether she'll realize she can do better and leave you! Sometimes love is just not logical. Enjoy what you have right now. Let the other guys who may be better looking, or smarter or whatever you think your wife might have married instead of you, eat their hearts out because she is yours. She married you, not them. Do whatever you can to make her happy, but don't stress about it. Congratulations on getting the girl of your dreams. I'm sure she got the man of hers.
2006-12-25 03:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". I'm not at all saying that your wife is not all of those things you have described,all l am saying is she could be more beautiful to you than to someone else. Every wife/husband gets mad at their partners at some time but it doesn't mean they will leave them. Stop stressing,as long as you show your wife how much you love and care for her she will always be around to love you back. Stop acting like a fool and just be a good ,caring and faithful husband and she will be around for a long time. All the best and a very Merry Xmas to you and your gorgeous wife.
2006-12-24 10:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There had to be a reason she married you. Just don't change. Do whatever it is you did when you courted her and don't change into anything different.
Most definitely ALWAYS love her and show you in every way. NEVER take her for granted and thank you for everything she does for you.
always surprise you with little things. Fix dinner for her one night, romantic setting. Bring her home some edible flowers or a gift certificate to her favorite nail salon or spa.
Make sure you take her out on a date at least once a month. That will keep things alive her feelings for you stronger.
2006-12-24 13:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you have found a woman who is into you for who you are instead of how you look.
Want to hold on to her? Find new ways every day to show her and tell her how much she means to you. If she feels loved she'll never leave you.
Make sure you stay in shape and make her feel safe. Try your hardest to let go of these insecurities - women generally find insecurity a negative trait.
I wish you incredible happiness - good luck, follow your heart.
2006-12-24 10:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by derek985 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right. You're in way over your head, and she deserves a man with confidence and a spine.
Try martial arts, weight training, running a marathon -- something that makes your nuts drop down out of your abdomen so you stop acting like a 9 year old girl.
Be confident and don't whine and smother her and follow her around. Chicks hate it when guys ingratiate themselves like jellyfish. Have some plans without her, slam a beer, play poker with the guys, rub your face, spit on the floor. Geezus what a panty waist!
2006-12-24 10:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Quick acting like a fool, respect her and pull your equal weight in the relationship.
Stop worrying about her leaving and spend your energy giving her reasons to stay!
2006-12-24 10:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her and dump those fool acts. There is no guarantee that she'll forgive you each time you act like a fool. She may have deep trash hole fo tolerance but you shouldn't try to stretch it!
2006-12-24 10:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 23:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by reus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She married you dude, obviously she thinks you are right for her. Try to be a better person when you are with her. Don't continuously need reassurance from her about your relationship or she will get tired of it.
2006-12-24 10:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can keep her by being thankful that you have such a beautiful and intelligent woman.she married you for you.let love work its course get over it already your wife LOVES you.and she is willing to be there.the catch is that you love your wife just as much as she loves you.
2006-12-24 11:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋