For the men, why do you guys go out of a store when your lady goes inside a boutique? or even groceries?

Question

I need to understand my husband because if I go to a shoe store or a boutque. He rarely goes in not unless I have to drag him inside. Why do you guys prefer to sit on a coffee shop and wait even if it takes forever...........

I would greatly appreciate your point of view, best answer gets 10 points. Thanks !!!!

Answer 1

This is an excellent question and I'm really impressed that you are considerate enough of your husband to ask.

It is very much a guy thing. I go in those places (boutiques, etc.)with my wife on the rare occasion that she even asks me to go with her, but I don't like it. It feels like going into a girl's bathroom: I know what goes on in there, but I'm not supposed to be there. I feel very uncomfortable - like I'm doing something wrong by even looking around.

I mean, how many times have gone in an auto parts place with your wife? It's not the same thing, but there are just places for guys and places for women. At least, that's how I look at it.

Now, grocery stores, I don't understand. I go to the grocery store all the time with my wife. But, not women's clothing stores.

Answer 2

Because we are totally different shoppers. We go into a store, look a a few things, and bam, off to the register. We pretty much already know what we are looking for before we get there. He knows you are going to spend alot of time just looking, and you are going to look at alot of stuff. We dread the time you spend looking, not what store you are going into. We find what we want and then we are out of there. You find what you want, but spend more time looking at stuff you probably aren't going to buy, so following you around turns into instant boredom and we would rather sit on a bench or go wait somewhere else.

Answer 3

[1] Nothing but chicks. Starts sounding like a quilting bee. And not in a hot lingerie wearing tongue wrestling way, either.

[2] Other guys in there look like hen-pecked p*ssy-whipped panty waists. Not wanting to appear that way, he opts out.

[3] He doesn't want to squeal, "Oh that purse is just to DIE for!" and sound like some fairy in front of all those other people.

Start by saying - let's go buy me a new thong together. You can take it off with your teeth later if you hang around to help me pick it out.

Then move him up to shoes at Nordy's where the men's dept. is close by, then on to Coach and Petite Sophisticate. Take it slow, girl.

Answer 4

guys get very uncomfortable and bored in a boutique, also if you notice they don't have anywhere for a guy to sit down while he waits. Same thing for shoe stores.

Answer 5

From my personal experience and observation of friends. Men go to exactly what they want, buy it and leave. Women walk around for long periods of time before making a purchase.

I can't stand it. My son can't stand it! I hate shopping malls! All it is, is a magnet to waste time and money.

Home Depot (although it has a bunch of neat stuff) is the same case, I know EXACTLY what I want prior to walking in, make my purchase and burn out.

Answer 6

Because there's nothing in those stores that guys relate to - but this rationale misses the point entirely! YOU are in there. A good man wants to be around you above all else.

Answer 7

some people, whether adult adult males or women people, can no longer cope with the assumption-approximately a gentleman's club, that's popular probably as a strip club. for people who're open-minded and not puritanical at coronary heart, it somewhat is exciting for the two women and adult adult males people to bypass to. i've got taken women people to them and that i've got additionally dated dancers.