my boyfriend clearly likes them, he looks at girls with them, so why doesn't he want me to get them? i have decent size now, so i'm just wanting to make them perkier, and he says NEVER!! Why??
2006-12-24 09:16:27 · 19 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He must like them the way they are... Leave well enough alone.
2006-12-24 09:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are 2 sides to this story...
1. He loves you so much ... just the way you are, and he would never want to change you or anything about you
2. He might be afraid that he would lose you due to the fact that you'll certanly get more attention once your breasts are perkyer.
The best thing you could do is talk to him or... if you are the feminin strong tipe.. break up with him... get your implants... het a date with a hot dude, get intimate... and be dumped the next day.... don't forsake what you've got :(
2006-12-24 09:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ever_Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has done more reading than you have.... and now that the "powers that be" have gotten silicon back on the market with all sorts of warnings, just in case you hve a problem with them,(meaning you knew so therefor you can't sue --- tuff luck---) perhaps you should do some research, and then you too will not want themmmmmmm... You bod knows when something is foreign, and I have lots of women friends who have had them, and all, absolutely all have had problems, that would horrify you, sweetie.... horrify you. Most have had them removed, a few are still trying, with replacements, but..... Sooner or later, they are going to give you difficulty. Your boyfriend is a smart guy --- read yourself, and listen to him....
2006-12-24 10:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he loves the look and feel of what you already have. No need for fake breasts.
Men love breasts and we love to look at other women. But when it comes to the woman we care about most we do not want her to undergo surgery that she doesn't need. Why would you want to add to what is already perfect?
You mention perky. Only young people need that. As you age you will begin to sag. But that is what you are suppose to do. And there is nothing wrong with it at all. They are always lovely no matter what.
Why women want to take the chance of dieing in surgery.....complications of a botched job......and any number of other health problems that can come from this procedure I will never ever understand.
Your boyfriend has your best interest at heart and he is to be commended for that. Listen to him.
2006-12-24 09:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have ya stopped to think maybe he likes your breast just the way they are. Some Implants can become a risk to your health later on in life----------and this doesnt mean when you are 60 or 70. It could cause problems in your twenties.
2006-12-25 06:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be afraid of the attention you will get. And you never know how he thinks of women that do have breast implants. Either way he is shallow and weak. If you want to get implants, get them. You aren't married...why are you posting in marriage and divorce anyway.
2006-12-24 09:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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Hope this helps.
2006-12-25 19:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants a good girl. And he's probably also insecure - and is worried that it may lead to you getting more attention, meeting someone better than him, and leaving him.
And don't think telling him otherwise will help - he's a guy and he knows how they think. It will go in one ear and out the other.
If he loves you as you are then the real question is... why do YOU want to do it?
2006-12-24 09:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by derek985 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because he likes you just the way you are and because he knows that there are health risks involved. Most guys look at other girls and your just going to have to accept that he does too but he likes or loves you not them and he's not dating you just because of your breast. Don't get them done.
2006-12-24 09:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he looks at girls with breast implants he probably realises that other guys do too and he doesn't want other guys staring at your boobs. Maybe he's worried you will leave him.
It's not really his choice anyway, your body belongs to you not him.
2006-12-24 09:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
FEEL BLESSED! He realizes they are fake, look fake, feel fake and have long term health issues.
Be proud of what god gave you and that your boyfriend excepts you for what you have.
2006-12-24 10:58:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋