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wud be gd if u can help ty :-)

2006-12-24 09:09:07 · 41 answers · asked by Jonny 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Merry Christmas Jonny!

We all have friends here

2006-12-24 09:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm sorry you feel like you have no friends. I only have three great friends in the world myself. We are always surrounded by people we work with, but there are rarely true connections, aren't there? I would be your friend, as that's the way I am and my heart has gone out to you by what you just wrote, but I'm trapped on the other side of this screen. To have friends, you have to be a friend. Step out and do something nice for someone and then wait and see if a friendship blooms. You have to open yourself a little to have friendships occur. If you are a bit shy, you can also try a penpal. My daughter just got a christmas present from her penpal in Sweden, and we are making a gift box to send over for her too. She's never talked to her in person, only via emails, but they have a great relationship. Please try that. Good luck and hang in there. Don't stay depressed for the holidays though. Go do something for yourself. Have a fun time and stay safe!

2006-12-24 09:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0 0

Hey, Jonny. Don't be so hard on yourself. Real friends are hard to come by &, if you're like me, then it might be because you are a little picky about who your friends are. Also, I'm talking about me now - so, okay - I'm hard too understand. I thought once it might be autism because I'll have an expression on my face sometimes that doesn't match the situation. I might be thinking about something else in my own little world. I don't do good around a bunch of people either - I get nervous, I think because I pick up on all their different energies.

Maybe people need to get to know you better - sometimes it can take years. Come see all of us anytime but first - think about what you like & want for a change. Other people like people that are well focused & have their own thing going on. I've worked @ my current office for 12+ years & have only now started to get some friendships going on from there. Some friends are pretty needy too. Take Jason L's advice as well.

We love you. Keep the faith! :)

2006-12-24 10:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by broomhilda 3 · 0 0

yep, i think you are the only one in the whole wide world....man, you must need a shower or something :-) Totally kidding dude.....what's got you so bummed out?? Hey, Christmas gets extra quiet because everybody is busy doing family events and such, but a lot of people are stuck alone. I am...I'm cleaning the house just to pas the time, and playing here for a few minutes trying to cheer you up. Look, you're making friends already :-) So anyways, try and cheer up...you can find something to keep you occupied and not think negative thoughts and that will be a good start. Oh yea...MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

2006-12-24 09:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No one is alone. It is only our attitude, the way we look at life. Our brain can play tricks on us, just like the magician can distract it and create illusions. It just takes sometime. You will realise that you are just depressed probably because someone whom you really loved hasn't shown you the same love. You will realise at times that there have been people who will love to have you as a friend but you were too busy thinking about the person you had in mind that you end up ignoring them. It has happened to me and thankfully I learned the lesson that love cannot be forced or placed on demand but can only be gained. So, relax, sit back, cleanse your mind of all worries, and think why you have been feeling so. Then take a piece of paper and start writing down a list of all the people who love you: Like your parents, sisters, brothers etc. Slowily, but surely, more will reveal themselves,.....believe me!

2006-12-24 09:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Rejo J 2 · 0 0

No you arnt, I have many people I know, but out of that only 2 or 3 that I can call true friends, and it is hard to get people to get together and do anything alot of the time it seems, unless you are the one putting out most of the effort. Some of my friends are the same ones from high school. A few new ones, I have met and I pursued the friendship. People just seem very strange about people trying to make friends with them it seems, lol.

2006-12-24 09:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by jeannie64 2 · 1 0

Jonny, the odd thing about human nature is people tend to run from a person that seems needy. Its not the way we should be but that's reality. but in reality we are all needy its just those who are getting their needs met don't act needy. I guess people are afraid a needy person will become like a leech that can't be gotten rid of. My advice to you...try to forget about your own needs and how people treat you, look at you, respond to you, but just be truly interested in the people you meet and know and be THEIR friend. Spread your friendship around and don't worry about those who are unfriendly to you. You'll feel better immediately and before long people will notice you're different and much more pleasant to be around and people will be YOUR friend. However there will be the occassional person who will not like you no matter what you do. That's life! Merry Christmas and God bless you!

2006-12-24 09:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Captain America 5 · 0 0

There are many people without friends in this country. Take up some hobbies or sports. Get involved in school projects and events. Go to social events. Join the Ymca. They have many activities. Do some volunteer work. There are many things you can do to make friends. What ever you do don't stay home everyday. Get out doors. Also, invite people over yourself. Make the first step.

2006-12-24 09:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by mjorod 4 · 0 0

Making Friends is really not difficult The first one must do is attend to bodily hygiene, Bath at least once a month , brush teeth occasionally stop picking your nose in public and above all CHANGE your socks on a bi-weekly basis.
Now you are ready to emerge into the light of day, go into the nearest pub and stand rounds of drinks for a couple of hours, by this time people will start to warm up to you, but let me warn you, if a very feminine guy comes up and pats your butt HE IS NO FRIEND.

2006-12-26 09:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I've got 3 friends and a cousin. Two of the friends are on line friends. Seriously. I haven't talked to anyone else besides family at Xmas and store clerks since... July maybe.

Anyways, no. You're not alone. well, you are alone but you're not the only one

2006-12-24 09:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 1 0

I don't need friends as such. lot's of people say they have friends,but often, they are superficial or just work colleagues who wold not be geniune friends outside work. So don't feel you are the only one not to have friends.Genuine friends are not two a penny,so when a real friend comes along, you will know.Just be happy with who you are happy with,if that makes sense.

2006-12-24 09:17:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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