I don't wanna be mean to my friend but her music is really bad and so is her singing so she is always being made fun of behind her back should I tell her that she is being made fun of or not!!!
2006-12-24 08:57:26 · 17 answers · asked by blueeyedcutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, i would tell her , but in a gentle way. You don't want to hurt her feelings. She may say that's not true and your just jealous, but talk to her about it. I would want my friend to tell me, instead of a stranger. Say it in a caring way, that way she knows your not trying to hurt her feelings.
I hope this helps!!, merry Christmas
2006-12-24 09:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, yes!!! If you are truly her friend, then you will let her know the truth. The truth might hurt sometimes, but I'm sure you can think of a subtle way to break it to her, as to protect her feelings from totally being devastated. I always approach touchy situations with a sense of humor. Try that somehow. By sharing the truth with her, she will realize you really care, or she should. The people who aren't being truthful with her and just using her for their amusement need to get a swift whack in the head. I'd do it if I could, but I'm on the other side of this screen. Please don't be part of the hateful group by you not saying anything to your friend. Be honest and truthful with her and you will see you will be rewarded in a positive way. You will laugh about it later. Good luck!
2006-12-24 09:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's probably all out of jealousy.. Did one chum make relaxing of the accent and then they began too and now that's the butt of all their jokes? Thats popular severe scool boys for you... none of them have a options of their personal so as that they use the same shaggy dog tale. i'd tell them the way you experience. If that would not artwork end spending a lot time with them and they receives the hint. Spend time with your different acquaintances who do not tease you. tell them a warm female isn't each little thing you want... you want a lady with some intensity. a personality and good personality. that's none of their organization who you want as a lot as now. Ask them why they care a lot and why they are jealous. they're going to probably knock it off finally at the same time as they locate some thing/someone extra exciting to make relaxing of or communicate about. carry close in there!
2016-12-01 03:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true friend than you should find a way to tell her that her music and singing is really not the best. No reaon to tellher that people are making fun of her.
2006-12-24 08:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her that some people were making fun of her singing and tell her that she shouldnt listen to people because you need to support your friend instead of letting her down like the other ones did it would be real important for you to tell her not to sing around them and just with you! I know that you will make the right choice but good luck!!!
2006-12-24 09:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing along or sing your own music very badly. Find out if she's the kind of friend to mention it to you.
2006-12-24 09:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she think she's really good? Cuz if she already knows she sucks and she doesn't care then she is above all of those people anyway! Being yourself and having fun is what it's all about!
2006-12-24 09:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't tell her that people are making fun ot her, I would sit her down and tell her the truth. but its her music and if she wants to listen to it. she has every right to. but you can tell her in a nice way to stop singing, tell her don't quit her day job or something.
2006-12-24 09:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, save her from further embarrassment.
Are you sure she doesn't already know that she's being made fun of? Because she might know and just not care what other people think...
2006-12-24 09:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Haven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want my friend to tell me. Its alot better hearing it from you than hearing it bye mistake from someoneelse that is making fun of her.
2006-12-24 09:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by Kimberly B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋