He can not tell the truth and he makes unsound business decisions that have cost us two homes. I have had it.
2006-12-24 08:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by Karen S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on your level of tolerance. By the way, did you say "for better or for worse during your marriage vows"? If he hasn't been unfaithful to you, but just a failure at business dealings, then I wouldn't throw in the towel yet! He needs business counseling. But, if he lies about other things such as personal relationships, and cannot be trusted, and is not willing to seek counseling, then he has violated the marriage contract. The choice ultimately is yours. Some of us can put up with more stuff, than others can!
2006-12-24 08:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say leave. Immediately. I have been out of a relationship with a pathological liar for 3 years now. He just doesn't get it... He can not tell the truth to save his life!!!! The stress that you have to live under, with no trust whatsoever is not worth it! Extricate yourself from him severely and immediately!
GOOD LUCK! Happy Holidays, and it will be so worth it!
2006-12-24 08:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by purplepartygirrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope his lying hasn't cost you any of your own money. He might just be having bad luck in business, which might turn around, but I wouldn't stay married to someone I knew had lied to me, because that kills the trust necessary for a marriage. Good luck in 2007.
2006-12-24 08:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a habitual liar , get in that car and do some traveling on the way out stop by your atty. and file for divorce. A liar is the worst husband a woman can have look at Bush.
2006-12-24 08:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 23:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be the wrong person to give marital advice because I am on my 5th husband. Here it goes anyway. NO-ONE deserves to be lied to. If he really cared for you he wouldn't lie so why hold on to a dead marriage. Dump him and go find someone who truly loves and respects you.
2006-12-24 08:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no doubt u have lost all the trust and faith in him, and due to his bad business practices u won't want to trust him again. guess it would depend on his response after u have confronted him, if u leave him or stay. just stop him from making any more financial decisions.
2006-12-24 08:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try counseling, if this doesn't help, an ultimatum......if he disregards the ultimatum.........you should by now have figured out it's time to go. Otherwise he is going to drag you down with him, if he hasn't done that already.
2006-12-24 08:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, do you love him? If you do, talk to him about money. Control it yourself if you have to. But if you are both in love with eachother recognize how rare that is and deal with things accordingly.
2006-12-24 09:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by derek985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good lawyer. Take action now.
2006-12-24 08:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋