Okay my mom is making a big deal out of it? help?

Question

Okay recently I like this guy who's 18 and I'm 14 turning 15 soon she got angry when I told her his age but I didn't want to lie.She said she doesn't even want to meet him.I'm really angry at her she's even said she's going to call the cops.His parent's are okay with me they meet me anyways.Help?

He is a decent guy but I don't want her to judge him right away when she see's him.

Boys my age are jerks.Anyways it isn't like we planned to like each other

But he's such a great guy I hate my mom for this.

Answer 1

Your mother is only doing what she thinks is best for you. I don't think it's the fact that he's too old for you. It's just that right now, it's not okay. He's an adult, and you're not. That's dangerous. You're just asking for trouble. Be a teen, have fun, hang out. If you wait a couple years you'd be fine. I mean look down the road 5 years, you'll be twenty and he'd be twenty-three. Nothing wrong with that. You've still got a couple years before you're considered grown. Enjoy them. Don't waste them hanging around boring "grown ups."

Talk to your Mom. I don't think she's overreacting. She's just trying to do her job.

Answer 2

I'm sure that this is hard for you being unable to be with a guy that you really want to be with. I know, I'm having a similar problem of my own now! However, I would have to agree with your mom. 18-year-olds are more emotionally mature than 14/15-year-olds. It's part of the "balance" of nature. I'm 16, so I could be wrong, but it seems to me that 18-year-old boys are generally out for only sex, especially when there's a 14/15 year old girl there. It just seems kinda awkward, there being a relationship between an adult and a young teenager. There's my stance.

Answer 3

I see that you may not be getting the answers nor support you are looking for and I won't stop the trend. I seriously think you are getting in way over your head with this guy. On top of that I think you are far more intelligent than most people give you credit for. I know you have seen the movies and have heard the stories of young girls falling in love with guys and later regreting it. You've seen 'MAURY'. You know it happens to us all no matter how old we are. Your mother is responsible for your safety and she knows much better what is best for you especially in a matter such as this. If this boy cares for you he will not want to drive a wedge between you and your mother. People that truly care about others want PEACE, SAFETY and LOVE for others. Is this what he wants for you? It sounds as though he wants 'a PIECE', whether or not he uses SAFETY when he eventually talks you into making LOVE to him. TEST HIM AND SEE IF HE WOULD MAKE LOVE TO YOU? If he says 'no' see how long he goes. Liars don't take long to get BUSTED.

Answer 4

When a guy over 18 and a girl under 18- that can be statutory rape if u r sleeping together. If she cannot prove u r having sex with him then she really cant have him arrested. But she can get him for tresspassing if he comes over and she doesnt want him there. She could make life hell for him. She is just looking out for you and worried about you and thinking some older guy is going to take advantage of you. She really is doing it all out of love. Maybe if u talked to her and made a deal that you would only see him in your home when she is home. Atleast until she is more comfortable with him ya know? Good luck to u

Answer 5

any way he is too old for you, 14 or 15 is a tricky age you feel boys your age are very inmature but 18 is too old because there are things that they can do that you can't. Just give it time...wait on a boyfriend you have plenty of time..boys are nothing but a pain in the butt any how. And no your mom is not making a big deal out of it she just doean't want to see you making any mistakes

Answer 6

Just don't say anything to your mom but don't really ignore her cause she will get madder. DONT BE MEAN!!!!! If i could chose i would just stop going out with the guy until I'm at leased 18 so I'm an adult. your still a child so your parents are still in charge of u and who u date. I dont really see anything wrong with dateing a guy 4/3 years older than me my friend is married to a guy 10 years older than her!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 7

the older you are the less significant the age difference will be. if he really likes you he will wait till you are legal age for him to date.
boyfriends come and go, especially when you are younger, but your parents are your's forever. what may seem like true love could be just infatuation. give yourself time to grow up a bit more. i know most 14/15 yr old boys are jerks, but at 18 he could get inserious trouble legally. if you do love him step back until you are legal age to keep him from getting in trouble.

Answer 8

She's creating very much out of it hence of certainty she loves you. What happens in case you get pregnant.. hence of certainty faster or later you have got intercourse. Then what happens? as quickly as you advance previous, you spot themes alot otherwise from as quickly as you have been an adolescent. Being out til 430 with him substitute into the incorrect selection. you're saying its unlawful now, yet should not be rapidly. Does that make it extra suitable proper? If he likes you, then he will such as you as quickly as you swap 18 besides, if he does no longer, then he by no skill enjoyed you first of all.

Answer 9

i gotta side with your mom on this one. he's an adult and you're not. i could see if there was only a 1 year difference in your ages, but 3 years is a bit too old for you. sorry, i know it's probably not what you wanted to hear. talk with your mom and hear her out and try to understand where she's coming from. you've got so many years ahead of you for dating and relationships...have fun with your friends while you're young. best of luck.

Answer 10

Well i think that 18 is a little too old try dating a 16 or 17 yr old guy