I've lost a lot of respect for this friend who i used to be very close with. She is so sensative and melodramatic -- I don't take her seriously anymore. Thing is, i already bought her a gift, wrapped it (it's only about $6). Do i give it to her or someone else?
2006-12-24 08:07:58 · 16 answers · asked by Marc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You obviously cared enough to buy her the present, so go ahead and give it to her in the spirit of the season. You don't have to have anything else to do with her in the new year, but why not end the year on a positive note? It would give you a sense of closure at this point in your life at the very least. Good Luck!
2006-12-24 08:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be the bigger person and just give her the gift anyway. Something must have made you her friend. Have you told her that she's very dramatic and melodramatic? She might not be able to fix her problem if she doesn't even know why you're upset with her. But as far as the present goes, you should just give her the gift, you'll feel better.
2006-12-24 16:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it to her anyway in the spirit of the holiday. You were friends for a reason and deep down you must still care for her somewhat. It was very sweet of you to get her a present and I'm sure you'll make her feel good that you thought of her. Be the more forgiving, mature person by putting the petty things aside and doing the right thing. Merry Christmas to you and Happy New Year. xx
2006-12-24 16:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, give it to her. It may hopefully fix the problems you're forced to face with her. The exchange of gifts is a good and Godly thing that brings love and happiness to the giver as well as to the receiver.
I hope things work out well!
2006-12-24 16:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♡♥ sHaNu ♥♡ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, give it to her. It will make you feel better and possibly (if she knows you're mad at her) make her feel better. It'll be like a peace offering. Give it to her nicely and tell her you're sorry. (I did the same thing with my friend, she told me that she hated me and that she never wanted to see me again, but her B-day was 2 days away and I still gave her the gift and we made up!)
2006-12-24 16:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by ♫♪♫TAY-LUR♫♪♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and give it to her. You will probably make up soon anyway and you bought it just for her. You will be embarrassed if she gives you a gift and you have none for her.
2006-12-24 16:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to her,when youve calmed down you will probably see things in a different light and might regret not giving her the gift
2006-12-24 16:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y not? what r u going to do w/ the gift anyway if u dont give it to her? it will probably even make things better.
2006-12-24 17:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by jello_meg4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to her. Take the high road. You'll feel better about yourself and you may end up making up later.
2006-12-24 16:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short - just give her the gift. It doesn't mean that you are buddies again. Sheesh!
2006-12-24 16:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by Content One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋