me and my girlfreind are living apart at the moment we have a 16month old child sometimes i stay with them for a few days and sometimes she comes 2 staywith me she sleeps with me whenever we are together but she refuses to admit to her family that we are still together as if i dont even exist what should i do
2006-12-24 07:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does it really matter whether or not her family know.
What you need to be concerned about is that she admits to YOU that you are still together. What is this staying each other's house some days here and there? Why are things like this?
Put a stop to it. Your child is getting to the age where she/he is going to realise that something is not right between the two of you. can't you go live with her, cant she live with you?
Put her on a se x ban and she soon come to her senses.
2006-12-24 10:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a relationship really. It sounds like you're still dating, just with sex and a consequence of carelessness. You don't say what you want - are you happy with this arrangement apart from the fact that you want her to acknowledge you in public?
Where is this going? You have a child, you're not exactly forging a strong family unit for the child. What provisions have you both made for the child? Are you planning on providing a joint home and a stable relationship for this child? Or is it still all about you?
Sounds like you both have some growing up to do.
2006-12-24 07:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by RM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you living apart? Why isn't she acknowledging you to her family? Since you have a child, the most important thing is to make sure that your child is loved and secure. If you're a good parent spend as much time with your child as you can. Your girlfriend needs to admit to her family that you are a part of her family now. Good luck.
2006-12-24 07:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound like you're really not ready for a relationship but since you're now parents that has to be the most important thing.
Talk to her and tell her being parents is first and the relationship is on hold until you both know what if anything you want to do.
2006-12-24 07:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk with your girlfriend and ask her straight out why is she so ashamed about telling her family about you? I am sure her family going to find out eventually. On top of that communication one of the keys to a healthy relationship. I hope that helped. Merry Christmas!!!
2006-12-24 07:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she gets an ear bashing from them about you....or did in the past anyway, so now to save the peace, she doesn't say you're still around....there's clearly something amiss here for her to be behaving like this.
2006-12-24 09:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she may be hiding the fact that she for some reason may be ashamed or embarrased to have her parents think that she is still with you. Maybe she thinks they will disapprove of her being with you for whatever reason. The only way to find out is to talk to her yourself.
2006-12-24 07:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by karlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she wants and if she say what you'll are doing is okay with her then you need to put your foot down and tell her to get her act strait and tell her parents or move in.It all about the baby not you and her.good luck to and you family
2006-12-24 07:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by hottiecurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You no the answer already,good luck.
2006-12-24 08:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her, however, if you don't love her and think that you will leave her to be with someone else, let her go now. Please don't stay and break her heart later.
2006-12-24 07:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋