I'm going to have to agree with Derek985. I lost my ex a year ago and YES! it has been very hard for me without her. But I tried so many times to just say what I want to say and she still will not care. It does hurt, but as time does go on so will you. I know what you're going through. And I know she means everything to you, but STAY STRONG. I know it's hard and it has been for me. But try and make the most of it without her for the time being. Yes! it may be your loss but it's also hers too.
The only advice I have to give is to keep yourself busy. Go out with your friends, go to the movies, take your Friends out to eat, etc, etc, etc., As time pass it will be easier for you. And you are not the only person who has gone through this. We all have and we feel your pain.
So if you want to talk more about it you can email me. I will be willing to help.
Take care. I wish you well with life's fullest pleasures.
2006-12-24 07:56:02
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answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6
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answered by Robert 3
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If you have lied in the past, then she is unlikely to believe you now. Its hard to be specific without knowing the details. She needs time to heal and get her life together. She really doesn't want empty promises or explanations. She may want to hear an apology though. The best thing you can do is give her some space. Offer your friendship and tell her you will be there for her if she ever needs anything. A friend gives without expecting anything in return. She may decide you are worthy of another chance. Good Luck
2006-12-24 08:01:01
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answered by Bembie 1
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She is your ex isn't she ?? Why do you want to make her feel special now ?? Perhaps you should have worried about that a bit more when you were still together. You could try talking to her but depending on the circumstances of your break-up, l don't know if it will help or not. Maybe you could write her a letter explaining exactly how you feel about her, but like l said the damage may have already been done. Best of luck with it all and a Merry Xmas to you.
2006-12-24 07:58:37
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answered by kazzadanni 4
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Good-bye, so long , arrivederci, adios, au revoir, hasta la vista baby, adieu, vaya con Dios, see ya.
Use one or two of these and you will make her feel special. Ask yourself: since when women care about what a man feels deep inside after she takes a stand and says "NO" Understand that for now OVER is OVER but if your life situation changes and shows room for improvement, she will come after you and that is where is the separation between a man and a sucker.
2006-12-24 08:00:30
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answered by alpha & omega 6
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Nothing. My own experience is that once you've passed the point of no return - nothing you say will help. I'm so sorry to tell you this but it really is the truth. After she passes that point, she's only focused on the negative aspects of your relationship and will associate any of your comments with a negative feeling - even if they're the most heartfelt things you can say.
2006-12-24 07:42:29
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answered by derek985 2
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I have a whole list of things that i said to my ex that I will loan you.
However, If you want to make her feel special (unless thats special ed) you better not use mine.
2006-12-24 07:47:23
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answered by onlybitealittle 2
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Talk to her from your heart, the truth is the est. But you need to ask yourself before you open your mouth-- "Why is she my ex? Can simple words fix the mistakes that WE made?"
Good luck and have a wonderful holiday
2006-12-24 08:55:28
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answered by blueangeleyes1975 3
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VVOVV some people's comments are really mean I don't think you should listen to any of them I don't think you are a loser I think it's really sweet that you want to tell her how you feel if she doesn't care her loss(we should report some of these comments) the 'vv' thing is really cute
2006-12-24 10:20:13
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answered by may the force be with you 1
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I can tell you what I say to my ex, but not in front of the kids:
Loser
Dirtbag
Moron
Deadbeat
Porn freak
Stupid (for letting me go)
2006-12-24 07:58:44
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answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4
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