We have been married for two years now.
Are both in our late fifties, both been married and devorced.
Recently things have really changed between us, ever since I had to quit working because of illness, Hepatitis-C.
He has become very 'snappy' toward me, and never appologizes
when he upsets me.
He/we have enough money to live on, and he makes good money.
I cannot figure out what has happened here.
I am 'not' imagining his change of attitude, and he say's nothing
when I ask him why he is so impatient with me.
I've even asked him if I have become a burden to him because of my illness, and he says 'NO'.
I'm very baffeled about his behavior, it makes me feel 'Un-loved',
and just a big burden to him.
Can anyone give me some insight into this please..
2006-12-24 07:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he knows how you got Hepatitis-C,then something is wrong with him; is he is acting mad with you.But if he does not,that is the problem there.Good luck.
2006-12-24 07:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jewel's,
It is tiring and saps your strength disease. My friend has hepatitas C. I have been worrying about her for awhile and thought I would try to reach her this afternoon. Anyway there are up and down days. Your heart feels weak...you need to sleep. Your husband or boyfriend is probably so worried about you that he is at wits end also. I believe he loves you and feels powerless and that is where his anger is coming from. Maybe you could have a girlfriend or family come over and stay with you for a couple of days so he can get away and come back refreshed.
H may just need a break
2006-12-24 15:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people don't know how to handle others health issues. Your husband could be scared he's going to lose you. Regarding the way he treats you, know you're not alone. His behavior is very common and passive-aggressive. I seriously doubt you're imagining it. Sit him down, talk to him, offer to help him with anything you can do at home (if your health allows) and let him know you need his love, tenderness and support now more than ever. Good luck!
2006-12-24 15:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how did you contract Hep-C? Regardless of what he's stating, YOUR illness is a sore spot for him. That you can make book on.
You may see it as having a finanically secure future, However, he does not.
Sound like the time to bail-out is now, if this has been going on for more then a couple months.
2006-12-24 15:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like a burden to my husband every day.
so i don't have an answer for you, but just wanted to tell you that i understand how you feel.
i wish i knew what to do as well.
2006-12-24 15:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine it is the fact that you have hepatits C,, I suggest divorce
2006-12-24 16:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know, maybe he thinks you cheated and got it there.
2006-12-24 15:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋