There is this horribly unattractive girl I go to highschool with who thinks she is just HOT!!!
In reality.. shes just a big HOT mess.... It actually very sad...
she walks around like she's pretty or something... It gets on my nerves to be quiet frank..... should I let her know that guys don't like girl with a cottage cheese *** and donald trump hair?...
do help... thnx a whole bunch...
2006-12-24 06:38:51 · 33 answers · asked by Chris L 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Nah leave her. She will properly find out in time.
2006-12-24 06:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Shack S 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
read this:
>> Girl: Hey
>>
>> Boy: What?
>>
>> Girl: I really like you. And I... I think I'm falling in love with you.
>>
>> Boy: Ok...
>>
>> Girl: What do you mean "ok"?
>>
>> Boy: I don't like you like that...
>>
>> Girl: Why not?
>>
>> Boy: I can't tell you... maybe another time...
>>
>> From then on, the girl kept asking the boy "Why not?" whenever she saw
>> him,
>> and he kept answering the same answer of "I'll tell you later." Finally
>> the
>> girl got fed up.
>>
>> Girl: I'm tired of this! Tell me why you don't like me!
>>
>> Boy: Do you really wanna know why?
>>
>> Girl: Yes!
>>
>> Boy: It's because you're uglier than ANYTHING! What's the point of going
>> out
>> with someone when they're not pretty?!
>>
>> Girl: But... I...
>>
>> Boy: Just shut up and leave me alone!
>>
>> The boy leaves and the girl is sitting there alone, crying her heart
>> out.
>> Then her cell phone rings.
>>
>> Girl: Hello?
>>
>> Mom: Sweetheart? I want you to go home, ok? I'll be home from work in a
>> few
>> hours.
>>
>> Girl: Alright Mom.
>>
>> Mom: I love you.
>>
>> Girl: I love you too, Mom.
>>
>> Mom: Bye Bye.
>>
>& gt; Girl: Bye
>>
>> The girl heads home and once she got there, she went in the bathroom and
>> looked at herself in the mirror.
>>
>> Girl: I'm not pretty enough...
>>
>> She set to work, knowing fully well what she was going to do. 2 hours
>> later,
>> her Mom came home and heard the bath water running. She went upstairs to
>> find the hallway flooded so she knocked on the door.
>>
>> Mom: Honey? Are you alright?
>>
>> She opened the door and was shocked at the site. The bath was
>> overflowing
>> onto the floor, and the water was tinted red. She walked over to see
>> what was
>> inside and screamed. There, her little girl was lying with cuts all over
>> her
>> face and wrists. Her Mom backed away and was going to run to call the
>> police
>> when something caught her eye. On the mirror, am I pretty enough now?
just how a person's face looks dosn't make them pretty. the way they act contributes to it. if this girl is just happy wih her looks, and dosn't brag or make fun of others, there is nothing wrong. if she does, then you still shouldn't say she's ugly. just ignore her.
2006-12-24 23:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by LOLgirl <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her be..YOU might think that she is unattractive but that just might be your opinion ...Im sure someone else out there thinks otherwise. I dont see how she is harming you in any way with what sounds like a bit of self confidence,I really dont think it is very tasteful to go make an issue out of it. That would make you seem like the real jerk in this situation. You either sound just jealous or maybe she turned you down...
2006-12-24 07:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't. If you do, you will just upset her and knock her self esteem. Only insecure people feel the need to knock other people down just to make themselves feel better. If you do that, I hope it comes back on you one day, because you deserve it.
Also, just because you find her unnattractive, doesn't mean other people won't find her attractive, it's not your place to tell her your worthless opinion. Maybe she acts confident, but doesn't feel it inside. You could end up breaking her and that in all honesty, is cruel and evil.
You need to get over yourself, whatever happens I hope she realises you are just a dumb prick with a worthless opinion.
Take care : )
2006-12-24 09:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your life so boring that you have nothing better to do than shatter some poor girls confidence??? Who cares if you do not think she is pretty......quit looking at her then.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and i can guarantee there are probably girls out there who don't think your too hot eitherGrow up,get a life and leave her alone!.
2006-12-24 06:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dear Abby has a system of three questions to help out with this kind of problem.
Is it kind?
Is it helpful?
Is it true?
You're feelings may be true, but they are definitely not kind or helpful, so I wouldn't say anything. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just because she gets on your nerves doesn't mean nobody likes her at all.
2006-12-24 06:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean ppl like that can be really annoying and u feel like saying sumting mean just to get them to come down a notch! but i wouldnt because chances are if she is that horribly unnattractive she probably already knows shes not good looking and is trying to make up for it by being extra confident... which sum ppl just dont get is extreamy annoying.. bt i really wouldnt tell her shes ugly thats just horrible imagine how you'd feel if u heard that like.. i say she has alot of her own troubles going on that shes trying to cover up and compensate for, well thats what it sounds like neway!! good luck and stay strong.. i know what your going threw...hehe!! merry christmas!!!!!
2006-12-24 07:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by *candy* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound too hot yourself. You've got an ugly attitude and it sounds like you are jealous of her confidence.
You need to work on the flaws YOU have before you start being judgmental about others.
Don't be rude and quit being such a little *****.
2006-12-24 06:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you shoudl just leave her alone and let her think shes all hot....if everyone knows shes not, why do you have to be mean and kill any bit of self confidence she has
2006-12-24 09:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! Why? That's really disrespectful and MEAN. No need to be mean. Be friendly. Seriously. School sucks for so many kids, don't make it worse for her. She probably knows that she isn't that attractive, you don't need to tell her, and that would only hurt her. Why hurt her? To feel better about yourself, maybe? Be friendly.
2006-12-24 06:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by prekinpdx 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, dont be totally rude about it ... you could let her know it a totally nice way and offer to hook her up a lil bit with some nice outfits...like offer to take her shopping for clothes and show her some cool hair styles and make up tricks so hide some of the "nasty"! good luck
2006-12-24 06:45:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋