My friend is drinking alcohol whe she is 14. She doesn't get drunk, but she does have a beer. She says she only has a taste, and she her mom is letting her. I don't know if that is exactly true. what should I do? I would appericeate it if you reply
2006-12-24 06:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by Crazze Chik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have talked to the guidance counselour, and she told my friend my name. I wasn't pretty either. She threw her math book at me!!! It hit my head, and now I have a minor concuion!!! I am really worried she is getting adicted, and I already told and adult, talked to her and other things. She hates me now!!!! Now you get the picture? This is serious. So if you are one of those guys who is a inconsiderate jerk, back off. I don't need to to f*ck around with you.
2006-12-24 06:41:34 · update #1
I SAID TO F*UCK OFF IT YOU ARE A INCONSIDERATE JERK. You want to push me now tough guys. That is why none of you jerks get any dates or nothing. BACK OFF!!!!!!! >:-(
2006-12-24 07:13:17 · update #2
Your a good friend but your friend but your worry is misplaced.
My friend is addicted to more substances than that. At 14 she is not going to be an alcoholic trust me if she can knock down a pint of jack daniels and be fine then you have reason to be concerned.
Bottom line all you can do in your situation is be her friend and try to guide her. But you messed that all up. You narked thats rule #1 don't nark especially not on your best friend. Or even one of your friends for that matter. In her mind and you did you betrayed her and her trust and now your in no position to guide her at all. So the new friends she will make the ones that drink will and they will make the matters worse. So pretty much you have done all that you can do as soon as you tell it is over. Pray for your friend it is all you can do.
2006-12-24 07:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bleed the Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. If you are her friend, don't get her in trouble unless she is really headed there. A few drinks is not going to hurt anything. I drank at 14, my friends mom would let us have a few. My mom had no idea. It was more about doing something that I wasn't supposed to do.
2006-12-24 06:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by gypsygrl1973 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can anonymously report her drinking to a school counselor and they can take care of the rest. You need to be supportive as a friend by being there for her if she gets in a lot of trouble or if her drinking has become a habit. I see no problem with experimenting, but if this is a regular thing, then it's a habit... and it can lead to worse things.
2006-12-24 06:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there isn't really anything wrong with it... and if her mom lets her then that's her problem... she will learn form her mistakes... i know lots of people that drink that are underage.. i myself drink i dont drink that light stuff either.. but i know when i need to stop and i remember everything that happens but if her mom lets her and she knows about it then theres really nothing you can do... but if you want to do something then you should just talk to her and if it doesnt work then let her learn on her own... let her get sick one time and wake up with a hangover let see how it feels.
2006-12-24 07:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by URKA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its just the ocasoinale beer, i wouldnt worry that much, loads of my friends drink and they're underage (some of them do even get drunk which is a bit worrying).
if she starts haveing too many, and getting drunk, then id tell someone.
2006-12-24 06:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell a parent or adult what's going on and ask them to talk to her, and you can ask them not to tell how they found out. Even though she doesn't get drunk, a beer now could lead to her getting drunk later. You should tell someone before her drinking gets out of hand.
2006-12-24 06:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her parents and let them know they can get in trouble for letting their underage daughter drink alcohol and tell the girl too that it is wrong.
2006-12-24 06:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her what you think about it. I don't think you can really tell her what to do... it's her choice. Let her ruin her life.
I have underage friends and they all drink...
It's sad really.
2006-12-24 06:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let her drink as long as she drinks in moderation and not 24/7 she'll be ok. i mean, it's just a beer! all my friends drink...
sounds to me like you're sorta a goddie goodie. stop freaking out, she'll to just fine.
2006-12-24 06:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by alisa 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just do not let the friend drive or anything.....
2006-12-24 07:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋