One who lied, cheated and left his wife and kids for another woman? Being happy? Being with someone else? Leaving him alone completely?
2006-12-24 06:09:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks guys - just feeling a little bitchy today. Afterall it is the holidays and I am entitled to be a little bit of a ***** after all he has put me through. I actually ignore my ex - works for me!!
2006-12-24 06:58:10 · update #1
Remember the saying, "Success is the sweetest revenge"? Make that your anthem buy moving forward with your personal life and forgetting about what your hubby did to you--(Obviously if you have kids you two will still have to deal with other)--be HAPPY! Then, you accomplish two things--you get revenge but when you do, you don't even care b/c you are so happy in your life. That's the best way!
2006-12-24 06:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Zachary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back at an ex, would be to get the kids to go along with a lie accusing him of child molestation. The cops will jerk him in for questioning, more than likely charge him for the crime, then he'll fight it out in court and more than likely prove he's innocent. But during this time, he'll feel like he's living in hell.
Happened to me personally, only i had two ex's conspiring using kid's from both marriages. I spent a whole year fighting these allegations, went to trial, my 2 oldest daughter's and a son, testified under oath that i'd never done any of this that my ex's had coerced them into going along with it.
Man what a miserable year i spent dealing with it.
2006-12-24 07:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would be nice to be able to forget him, but if you have children with him it's not possible. So forgive him. Yes, forgive him, it is the best thing you can do for yourself. Look at it as a blessing in disguise. Some day, long from now, you will see him and think oh, I'm sure glad that I'm not still stuck with him. He did you a favor, although it's hard to see right now. Best of everything to you! Merry Christmas!
2006-12-24 06:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If revenge is what you seek, retain the services of a private investigator. He can offer the most vile or destructive advice around. Usually the targeted person ends up in jail with his career at an end. Incarcerated and jobless, the new lady will move on. This will leave him with a kind of sex that he hadn't counted on. ...........Or, you could do the right thing, and move on. Let it go.
2006-12-24 06:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by mojonah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By moving on and showing your ex that he didn't destroy you. You don't have to be with someone else to be happy. I got lucky. I did find someone else that makes me happy. I didn't do it to get even with him, but it just happened. And he is now more miserable than before and so angry, because he realized he screwed up a good thing. Don't find someone else unless you plan on making a relationship of it or you will do nothing but make yourself and the other guy miserable.
2006-12-24 18:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone and move on with your life. As long as you plot against him, he will still have a hold on your life, and that's not good. The best thing to do is just to move on and be happy. After all, they say that the best revenge is a life well lived.
Happy holidays...
2006-12-24 06:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back at him, it could just create trouble.... Just leave him be, It could be the best... I know its hard to do this but try your best to shrug it off and be content with what you have... I don't know if you're into this, but God has been teaching me to be content with what I have... We're not greatful for what we have we take it all for granted.... Its not your fault... You didn't leave him, he left you.... If he wishes to come back...I would pray about it and ask God for wisdom... some women would forgive their ex's.... its up to you... we all deserve 2nd chances... But I hope that helps!!! I hope you will make the best decisions you've ever made.. Blessings as you Celebrate the birth of Christ!
Merry Christmas
Crystal
2006-12-24 06:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a dish best served cold. Or something like that.
I don't really do revenege I just remove the offending article from my mind and have no further contact with it. Not because I want to hurt them but simply that they have to deal with it themselves instead of seeking closure by coming to me for forgiveness. In other words I couldn't care less about them.
I ain't Jesus, i'm not all forgiving and i'm likely to hurt you bad if you don't get out my face: is the message I project if they persist in hassling me.
2006-12-24 06:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing, other than sueing him for divorce and everything youre entitled legally to. Affairs are kids games and Lord knows there are thousands of them. You dont need to lower yourself to his level so let him be and he will eventually realize what he lost in doing so. You should move on with your life and quit worrying about his. What goes around will come around in time. Please, dont get caught up playing these little kid games for your and your kids sake. Nothing good ever comes out of revenge. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-24 06:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋