2006-12-24 05:49:53 · 18 answers · asked by antichristdrew 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe the "straight" guys feel uncomfortable because they ain't so straight, they gay or bisexual and don't want nobody to know that they too have homosexual feelings that's why they feel uncomfortable being around feminine guys.
2006-12-24 05:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I feel uncomfortable around feminine guys because it's not how men are supposed to be. Seeing a man go out of his way (yes, most do) to speak like a woman is creepy. The way feminine gays walk... the jokes they make, everything about them is creepy. Why are these gays so creepy?
I have no problem with someone being gay. No one should. What someone does in their bedroom doesn't concern me. I don't know why anyone would care. It's just so non-related to them.
I just find "queens" very annoying. Just like I find other certain personality types annoying. Honestly, I don't know how fashion models put up with you guys.
2006-12-24 07:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some do , some don't.
Most people male or female,
feel a bit uncomfortable when
they are around anyone or anything
that is very different from their everyday life.
The human race has a long, long way to go to be
comfortable with the idea of, " Live and let live. "
2006-12-24 06:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason that straight guys feel uncomfortable around butt-ugly gals. Gay guys are not nearly as attractive as girls.
2006-12-24 05:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Isuck,Usuck,Weallsuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because their feminine parts/behaviour attract them, which might be a bit disturbing. I know the same around masculine women, but I feel rather more comfortable among them than around feminine women =)
And I love feminine men. rawr.
2006-12-24 06:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mynnia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a very philosophical questions that can not be answer here. It is far too complicated as a question. Don't misunderstand it is an excellent question. It would be a deep discussion. I don't think there is a short answer to your question. Clamshell 19 seems to be going in the correct direction.
2006-12-26 14:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and plenty of gay guys feel uneasy around "femme" types. Cause they are not real women, only exaggerated parodies of femme traits.
both gay men and straight men and also women enjoy a solid, masculine, sensible guy who doesn't act like a sissy.
I never enjoyed hanging out with the loudmouth, chatterbox screaming guys. Not my type of friends.
2006-12-24 07:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANSWERING ON BEHALF OF MY PARTNER:
"I don't, i feel more comfortable around them. I don't like hanging around with guys, i prefer female friends. Gay and feminine guys are similar to this, so i get on well with them."
2006-12-24 05:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally people like to associate with others who are of a similar thought process and culture or have common frames of reference..
many times people find themselves in situations which require them to associate with people who are not in their comfort zone of normal..
this causes people to become aware of particular behavior patterns that are unusual, this combined with the fact that the unusualness of the situation is due to behaviors associated with sexual differentiation causes confusion, intrigue, and reactionary behaviors...
I am from the south.... i am white... and all my life to this very day people associate things about southern people to me... and depending upon who i am around... i will trigger uncomfortable feelings in someone just because of my accent, disposition toward life, or by triggering a stereotype they have in their mind...
this does not create as much discomfort because it does not have a high sexual component.... (generally) although accents and cultural traits from various places do effect others in that way
just some thoughts, oh and by the way why do you refer to feminine guys as though they are not straight.... this is not true.... many are straight and feel just as pressured to become gay because of this.... (prejudice)... remember there are bulls and they are not feminine regardless of their orientation
what do you think?
2006-12-24 06:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly via telling us that maximum of your individuals are woman and you re somewhat into "vogue, elegance,etc(many female pastimes," then definite it somewhat is usual to sense uncomfortable around right this moment men. you sense uncomfortable because of the fact your interests and the interests of maximum (no longer all) right this moment men are completely distinctive. basically because you're gay, would not advise which you're able to sense awkward around st8 men. it somewhat is basically the variations on your interests. do no longer difficulty nonetheless, basically be your self. human beings are human beings and that they're going to the two such as you for who you're or no longer, and in the event that they do no longer then it somewhat is their loss.
2016-10-28 07:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋