I was talking to a girl who said men are so lucky we don't have to have kids. I agree with that. I wouldn't want the pain of having a child. My question is, isn't the woman who usually wants the kid. I have never meet a man who said he wanted kids. I would never have children if I didn't have to. I think women should stop blaming us men for the pain of having a child when they are the ones who always want them.
2006-12-24 05:17:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No not all women want kids.
My daughter decided that she did not want to have any children.
She said that if she did she would probably adopt.
Unfortunately, there are alot of women out there that say they want kids. Have them and then don't want them so they abuse them.
I am proud of my daughter for not feeling that she had to fulfill society's standard of reproducing.
She is a wonderful person who shows love to other people's children.
2006-12-24 05:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by LaDoris 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Not all women want kids. There are ALOT of guys who want kids. In fact the guy I am with right now has 3 of them and would like another. I have a 17 year old daughter and have always wanted at least 3 or 4 kids. I will never have them. I personally don't know any women who have SERIOUSLY blamed men for the pain of child birth. We do it in a joking way and our guys know it. The only time I have ever heard a woman seriously blame a guy is when they are actually in labor. They don't remember it afterwards and it is the father that has to tell them what they said. Women who WANT children would go through the pain of being in labor just to get the best gift that could ever be given. And the men who love their mothers-to-be would gladly take as much of the pain for them as they could. Men like you need to start using condoms and quit placing all the responsibility of staying child free on us women.
2006-12-24 18:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In cases where divorces that involved children, and both the man and woman were asking for custody. The judge presiding cases in this scenario will award the children to the woman 98% out of 100%, reasons are a plenty, children needs mother's love; woman can take care of children better; woman does not have too many business entertainment...etc...etc
They should not blame the man but themselves and maybe the laws that protect woman in this society....We man wants to take care of the children and give them better life where woman are unable to give especially when the children are all boys.
2006-12-24 05:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by myway 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a woman and I do not want kids and never have. I like kids but just don't want them full time. Im happy being an aunt, that way I can spend time with them, spoil them then send them home and I can still have time for myself!
2015-12-28 16:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As far as the pain of birth....I would so do it again...I have to wonderful children...my ex husband wanted children right away and I did not...so we decided if it happened it happened...and it did twice.
I know I couple of guys that want kids but are single...so there are men who are like that...it is not only women_
2006-12-24 05:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I don't want kids. I knew I didn't want children when I was 16 and I have carried that through my life. I'm lucky I found a man that doesn't want them either.
2006-12-24 05:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't want kids. My husband doesn't want kids. We planed and he had a Vasectomy. We have never been happier.
Concerning your question. Amazingly enough the majority of women that I know don't want kids or very few kids. It is their husbands who are pushing for kids. The ladies are the one holding off.
2006-12-24 05:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never had an extreme interest in having kids. I love my stepson and nieces and nephews, but I don't think I'm missing a darn thing by not experiencing childbirth.
2006-12-24 05:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looks like this question is going to create a lot of flak. Well, now you know a man who wants kids, Me. My girlfriend doesn't. Does that answer your question?
2006-12-24 05:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by Simon S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know women who do not want children. I also know many men who would love to be a father. My husband included.
2006-12-24 05:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋