I cheated on him... he loves me... but he wants me to regain his trust how
2006-12-24 05:07:47 · 16 answers · asked by fersitf 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm sorry to be a bearer of bad news but he's never going to fully trust you again. You will regain his trust over time but he will always have that little bit of doubt. I hope you guys can move past all this and hopefully this doesn't happen again (to either of you)
2006-12-24 05:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by DLG 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you cheated on him in the first place. For a lot of people, that's beyond hurtful and really unfaithfully inconsiderate and insensitive. It'll take a long time to regain his trust, because it's very awful to be cheated upon, knowing that your girlfriend liked someone better than yourself. That'd be hard, don't you think? Well, what you can do is effortlessly do little things to please him and spend time with him. Not in a forced, hanging way. I meant hanging as in being with him twenty four seven, that's just weird. But do little things and spend your day with him relaxing and talking. Also, be honest from today. Honesty is a virtue.
2006-12-24 05:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by sPrInG LiLY 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You want to stay with a guy who gets angry over you watching internet porn; who escalates the argument into dumping the relationship because you were too embarrassed to admit you were watching, then escalates into violence by throwing you around, shoving and pushing you, and who calls women conniving, deceitful liars?! What the hell is wrong with you woman? If the two of you have so little respect for each other than you cannot even communicate about watching porn and it turns into breaking up with verbal and physical violence then you should have waved good-bye and let him go! You don't owe him anything except acknowledgment that at your age your are still embarrassed about admitting to watching porn on the Internet. That's all you did wrong, except of course grabbing onto him physically. You need to do some maturing even at your age and then you need to learn how to communicate. It wouldn't hurt if you acquired a sense of self-worth along with it. That he has convinced you that you are despicable and owe him something is what controlling manipulative people do. Go to couples counseling or you are going to have a whole bunch of unhappy in your future with this cretin.
2016-05-23 04:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he loves you but you never said you loved him. only time will heal his pain. as long as you don't do some thing ESL to hurt him...... why would he want you to regain his trust if you cheated.?
2006-12-24 05:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it'll take a long time probably. be patient and treat him with love and don't do anything unworthy of trust or respect!
2006-12-24 05:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by ragazza.chica.kella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust cannot be gained with any rules or by any way.its just a feeling and you should take time and slowly gain his trust.
2006-12-24 05:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hope he is a better human than you are, and is wi9lling to gve you a second chance.
2006-12-24 05:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Scott Bull 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with him and do everything he wants. Role play and tell him you won't say anything. Then don't say anything.
2006-12-24 05:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Professor Sheed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should take you back and place you under the pedestal.
2006-12-24 05:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by MikeDot3s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him well theres this guy big john
and he trust me
2006-12-24 05:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by BIG JOHN 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋