I c my bf at the weekend and usually once in the week. the days when i dont c him i get so bored and count down the days till when im next seeing him. It makes feel really bad. I sometimes see my mates etc after work but i still get so bored and cant really be bothered doing anything that doesnt involve him. it really annoys me cos i get so bored and just want to c him. what should i do?
2006-12-24 04:42:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get off your bum and go and see him
2006-12-24 04:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but this is not healthy;
It's great to love someone. But when it's to a point when you become totally dependant, then it's not good for the relationship.
It's stiffling.
Just imagine how good it would make you feel to be able to share things with him; You know, something you've discovered; some new skills you've been learning; some amazing places you went to and wish to take him...
Be careful;
With men, the novelty of being in love does wear off soon with men, and if you act like a totally dependant person, it would do you more harm than the contrary.
2006-12-24 04:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be telling him all that instead of us, and through the two of you discussing this, will emerge a better solution which hopefully will ease your stressful conscience. He has the answers and if he really loves you, he will come up with something, so why not get in touch now! But remember, cohabitation is not the answer, instead it will make things worse. Merry Christmas!
2006-12-24 05:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some things to do that are fulfilling to you. Either get a hobby or get involved with volunteer work. Find something that makes you happy to be doing it. I've had many friends in situations like yours, and, if the relationship ever ends, they find themselves with nothing to do because they've been consumed with one person and have lost their own lives. Find things to do that make you happy.
Examples: cooking, art, crafts, reading, shopping, bike riding, sports, volunteering, swimming, taking a class, etc.
2006-12-24 04:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a man and I advise you not to depend on a bloke like you do;or else,he will get bored of you very easily because men do not want to be loved this way.
2006-12-24 05:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by edd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem except other way round as im male.
Well go out with your mates, get a hobby, talk to new people etc.
2006-12-24 04:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Luke B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are but the worst think you can ever do is lose yourself in someone and not maintain your own identity and individuality.
You need to get out and find yourself.
2006-12-24 04:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont revolve your life arround a bloke! he will let u down one day and ull hurt even more than normal, have your own personal life too! have a fantastic xmas tomorro, hope your day is filled with happy times and a loving family! x x x
2006-12-24 04:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you only see each other twice a week? Sure he's not hiding something from you?
2006-12-24 04:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by trixi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you can get another one whome u can see everyday. men are like birds they come and go.
2006-12-24 04:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by bidia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋