is it good to have a healthy sex life when ur a teenager (girl)?

Question

if it is then what r the benifits?

oh, and just so you dont lecture me, yes its all done with protection

Answer 1

Sure. As long as you are being safe (which you are), and you are doing it because you want to, and not just to please someone else.
The benefits?
Pleasure
Connecting with someone you care about
Learning about your body
Learning about yourself
Stress relief
Learning how to communicate with someone
You will get better at having sex... which is a skill!
there are many more too... try scarleteen.org

Although, because I don't know how old you are, check to see what the statutory rape laws in your state. If you are below a certain age, it is illegal for anyone to have sex with you. Same goes for your partner...

Answer 2

Protection isn't 100% effective. No type of protection is, and even in combination, it's still not 100% effective. So, with that in mind, do you think it's healthy to have and raise a child when you're still a teen? Or is that something better left until you are older and have finished your education, so that you will have the tools, including the finincial ones, to care for yourself and a child? And are your truly prepared, at this stage of your life, for all of the emotional ups and downs, the emotional intensity of a breakup?

No, I'm not judging you. I'm just asking you to ask yourself some very important questions.

There are ways to have a sex life without vaginal intercourse, without any type of intercourse in fact. And they still very much count as a sex life.

Please, do yourself the biggest favour you hve ever done. Thouroughly read these sites on your own, and then read them again with your boyfriend.

Answer 3

I think there are more problems and worries when it comes to sex than the benefits. One outweights the other. The only benefit of sex is the pleasure, that it feels good for a short period of time and it's over. The problems and/or worries are that your protection might fail, you might get pregnant, you are at chances of getting an STD or even worse AIDS/HIV, the emotional and physical distress that it can produce on your body and mind, etc. I believe that when it comes to sex the female should look at all the areas and see within themselves if they are ready to take on a sexual lifestyle or not. Personally I waited until I was an adult to have sex because I saw what happened to females at my high school what happened when they had a sex life and I prefered to wait, and I'm definately glad I did.

Answer 4

Your healthy teenage lifestyle should come from the rewards of a good education, friends, family and maintaining a degree of physical mental well being. Sex should be the last thing from a teenage mind.

The real problem is the peer pressures from friends and the media of trying to "fit" in. This takes an emotional toll on many teens who are experiencing low self esteem and insecurity. They "believe" engaging in a relationship and sexual encounters is a display of "love" "attention" or feeling "needed". The real fact remains they lack this within their family environment. The degrading of family values and ethics is a contributing factor since the increase of divorces and pregnancies out of wedlock. A single parent cannot provide the same nurturing as a two parent family.

The bottom line is simple...social values are a disgrace. People are selfish, greedy, power hungry, self centered, self absorbed, and so on. As the population increases, more of this habit develops and the degrading of our future social values is in danger of completely vanishing.

Answer 5

You didn't say how old a teenager you are or how many partners you're having sex with.

There is NEVER enough protection. It's really hard to completely protect yourself from AIDS, and you hear stories all the time about babies conceived while using protection.
I fell into this trap when I was a teenager. I am one of the stories about "yes, it's all done with protection" My son and I grew up together and many times, he actually had more sense than me.
I know it's a little different time now, but I went right straight from playing with dolls to taking care of a baby. I didn't get to date like my friends, I didn't go to my prom.
I'd really think about the long term consequences, whether you think you are protected or not.

Answer 6

Maybe. Before having sex you need to protect yourself not just from disease and pregnancy but from emotional issues as well. I don't believe teens can know whether or not they will have emotional issues with sex until they are more mature.

One teen might be mature at 16 and another might be mature at 19. The test is, any woman should have confidence in herself and have sex because she wants to, not because she feels any sort of pressure from friends, boyfriend, or society. In addition she should not have sex when what she really needs is love.

If a girl is happy, stable, and fulfilled in all aspects of her life then perhaps she is ready for sex.

Answer 7

if your going to have sex then have healthy sex life for sure.
healthy meaning one partner or very few . no pain . no pressure.
no lies . and protection.
other then that what could a person say the only way to be safer is to not have sex and since i don't think your going to do that then go on and do it

Answer 8

i rather you wait til you're older,you'll never know what will happen to you. You're too young right now to do it anyway. If I were you, i would just say no to sex and stay healthy for the rest of your life like eating right, exercising, good hygiene, etc.

Answer 9

And what do you think you're gaining being so young and immature and just giving a lot of virgin boys a royal treat?

Why don't you use your time wisely and get an education so you can provide for yourself and your future family instead?

There's more important things than spreading your legs for everyone who comes along.

Answer 10

depends on your age, i don't think anyone should have sex before the age of 18 or have kids before the age of 25