Every one in school has one. Don't tell me to wait either that's not a logical answer!
2006-12-24 04:30:10 · 47 answers · asked by High_School_Musical_Freak 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
PLEASE! You're only 12!!! I'm almost done in high school and I've never had anything remotely close to a boyfriend! You'll regret it if you get one now and you'll love it if you wait (that's a perfectly logical answer - give yourself time to mature). Don't give in to peer pressure; it'll mess you up. Wait til high school at least. Junior high is like the hardest time to get through...pass that and the rest won't be that pressuring.
Just, please, for your own sake, WAIT!
2006-12-24 10:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by mtngrl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're totally normal, obviously at your school your grade has matured faster. Most girls I know start dating in grade 8, or 9, even 10.. So don't freak out about getting older... I don't have a boyfriend, and gosh I don't want one, at least not yet.. Don't feel like you have to get a boyfriend to fit in, find the right guy, I'm still looking.
Just because you don't have a boyfriend doesn't mean your not pretty.. The other day these guys in the back of my class were talking about how a girl isn't worth kissing if she doesn't have boyfriend, that is totally not true.. Yeah, I hear you, it's kind of weird to be around your friends and their boyfriends.. I get it.. But don't sweat it... If you feel like you're wanting a boyfriend, go ahead and start dating, or at least go out with a guy... I have and it's been fun, but we've mostly just become friends,,, and yeah.. See how you feel about hanging around guys, and if you're not ready to have a boyfriend or a serious commitment then great! I know I'm not ready to be tied down to one guy and haven't found the right one, plus I don't want to get into a situation that I'm not ready for.. It's everyone's personal decision, =)
Karina
2006-12-24 09:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly fine. There's no law that says you're 12 years old, so you have to have a boyfriend. So other people have one, big deal. Don't follow the crowd. I'm postitive there's lots of other girls at your school that don't have one, you just don't know it. When you find a guy you like that likes you back, great. But until then, don't stress out about it. Hope this helps
2006-12-24 04:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by ..rae..♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal. i really am sorry if you're feeling left out, but frankly i think you're the one who's got your head screwed on straight. i think twelve-year-old girls have enough to be worrying about without a boyfriend making it worse. don't sweat it-and i will recommend waiting, cuz a relationship with someone shouldn't be based on "oh, everyone else has one." it should be because you really want a relationship with this specific person. good luck sweetie!!
ps: just something to keep in mind-it's highly unlikely that EVERY SINGLE other girl in your school has a boyfriend.
2006-12-24 10:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by missizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal.I didn't have my first "real" boyfriend until I was 14.But I remember feeling the same way.Everyone else seemed liked they had a boyfriend but me.But don't worry your time will come.If you are 12 you are in middle school.Boys are kinda on the slower side(not being mean) around that age.When you get into high school it will probably be different..
2006-12-24 05:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥AsH♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally, completely normal. I felt the same way last year when I was 12 so i went out with people that were all.... not right. I have the most greatest bf now and i am so glad i waited. you'll fin the right guy no doubt.
2006-12-24 05:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by rosalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone in school has a boyfriend I'm sure
My cousin waited till she was 21 to have a serious relationship
(she isn't ugly either)
THERE IS NO RUSH You have your entire life for love. Enjoy being a kid while it lasts.
I should note this
what are you going to do with your boyfriend IF HE CAN'T DRIVE??
Are you going to have your mom drop you off for a date???
How will he pay for the date if he doesn't have a job??
This is why you should wait.
2006-12-24 04:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by SilversC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am 12 too. I just got asked out by a guy 2 days ago! And to tell you the truth.... We really are not even going out on dates. It almost made us less of friends and farther apart. I barely talk to him. I am not enjoying it. That is why I am breaking up with him.
2006-12-24 04:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Twelve is a little early to have one and I don't see the rush. I got my first boyfriend when I was 14. I'm not telling you to wait because I know how hard it is watching everyone else have one. I tried to have a boyfriend that early and it just ended in disaster. But who knows? Mabe you will find that special someone now. Not saying that it will happen but just go slow and don't just get a boyfriend because everyone else has one.
2006-12-24 06:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by MaculaMaster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋