2006-12-24 04:27:01 · 10 answers · asked by baby nina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They do care. There must be more to this story. I doubt they just woke up and said "That's it! Today is the day we are going to totally destroy our daughter's life for no reason at all!"
Think about why and if there is a good reason. Your parents love you far more then any boy ever will. Family first always. Maybe they see what you can't because you are blinded by love. Taking a step back and looking at things really helps!
2006-12-24 04:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Chula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I think you are looking at this all wrong! Be mature about it running away never solves anything and what if they are right about this guy for whatever reason they made you stop seeing him, if you run away with him then you will be left out in the cold. I think they do care about you otherwise they would let you see whoever you want and not have any opinions. I'm not sure how old you are but I felt the same as you all through high school my parents were just out to get me they didn't understand or really care about what I wanted but that was just me not getting my way now that I'm older I can only hope that I am as caring and responsible and involved with my children as my parents were with me.... Why don't you ask to have a sit down cnversation with your parents and ask exactly what it is about your boyfriend they do not approve of and go from there sometimes it may be a simple fix but talk with them about it don't run away from it or them!
2006-12-24 04:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say why your Mom wont let you see your boyfriend. However, from what you did say, it is obvious that your family would care if you moved out. If she didn't care, she would not say anything about who you date. Parents often come up with rules that their children may not understand. What you should understand is that your Mom is making her decsions based on information you do not, and could not, have--experience in the world. My Dad once took one look at a guy that wanted to date me, I couldn't date a guy without my Dad's approval of him first, and told me not to bring him around, not to talk to him on the phone or otherwise, to walk home a way that did not take me past this guy's home, and not to even speak his name. I obeyed my Dad. Twenty years later this guy walked into a fast food restaurant where I was eating with my son and started screaming my name. He was out of his mind on drugs and alcohol. How my Dad saw this trait in the guy twenty years before I do not know. What I know now and knew then, my Dad could take better care of me than I could myself. There were times when I wanted to run away (if you didn't obey him you thought he was going to kill you once he got a hold of you), but despite his heavy handed ways, he loved me and kept me going through two colleges and a failed marriage. Luckily, I listened to him and made decisions, and still do, based on what he taught me. Love your Mom back a bit. Listen to what she says. That is part of her loving you. If she thinks the guy is wrong for you, he most likely is.
2006-12-24 04:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just hold your breath til they cave? Not!!!! Seriously you sound like your 16 your acting like your 6, but you want to be 31........Whats wrong with this? Your parents are more than twice your age and have been there done that. It's obvious you won't listen to your parents which I can totally relate........so I think your next possible alternative is to talk to your peers....Not friends Go to a homeless shelter for women, I know you'll find several young women your age and younger who would love to change places with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And it is true YOU'LL HAVE MORE THAN ONE BOYFRIEND IN YOUR LIFE BUT YOU'LL ONLY HAVE ONE SET OF PARENTS who will always be there.
2006-12-24 05:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by william k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very immature. Why do you want to move out? So you think you can be with him? Baby when you do that, he will be gone faster than it took for you to tell him you are moving out to be with him.
If your parents dont want you with him, there is probably a good reason for it and you know it as well.
DON'T EVER LET A MAN ALIENATE YOU FROM YOUR FAMILY!!! BECAUSE WHEN HE LEAVES YOU OR START MISTREATING YOU, WHO DO YOU THINK YOU WILL CALL FIRST FOR HELP?
Think about that.....
2006-12-24 04:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your mom about why she won't let you be with your boyfriend. See her side of the story before you do something that will hurt your relationship with your mom.
Good luck
2006-12-24 04:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell her that u love each other and u should see each other if that dose not work move out 4 a few days ( go to ur boyfriend's )and then come back to see her to see if she changed
2006-12-24 04:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really no that they dont care they probably care but they just want you to find out whaat is wrong with you bf and he probably needs to chandge so your parents can at least respect him.
2006-12-24 04:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Citizen Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do care. Your parents love you and are just trying to protect you. Talk to them about your feelings. If they are good parents they will listen to you.
2006-12-24 04:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends come and go, parents are forever.
2006-12-24 05:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anne2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋