I'm thirteen and I've never put on any make-up...?

Question

I wan't to, but my mom doesn't really want me to...what should I do? Is this a late time to get started? I know it's not too late...but what is the average age for somebody to start wearing make-up. I feel bad because I see eight year olds with mascara on walking around the mall...

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Boys answering...any advice from girls? You know...the people who actually wear make-up?

I know a lot of you are saying I should just stick with my natural beuty...but everybody wears it at my school...I just feel really left out.
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Ok, so many of you are saying don't wear makeup, some of you are saying ask my mom first and put a little on it, and some of you are saying just go for it without her permission. Now...I have a little problem. I have no idea how to put it on. It takes a long time, and I have no natural beuty whatsoever. I don't have zits or pimples or anything but I don't think I am pretty at all.

Answer 1

If you want to wear makeup without your mom getting scared, just use a little bit. Use a natural looking mascara such as Maybelline Great Lash to make your eyes stand out. Smile and apply a light pink cream blush like Maybelline Dream Matte Mousse on the apples of your cheeks (The part of your cheek right next to your nose that gets larger when you smile). Then just put some Chapstick or Smackers lipbalm on your lips. When you get older, you can start putting more heavy makeup on but for now keep it natural so it doesn't look caked on or fake.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with being thirteen and you've never worn make-up. But, no, it isn't too late to get started.

Your Mom is trying to keep you from buying into the whole message the beauty industry tries to sell women (and young girls) - that you're not really beautiful unless you use X product. Don't buy (literally and figuratively) into that lie.

I'm sure if we were to see you, we would see a lovely thirteen year old who already has her own beauty. On the other hand, there is nothing wrong with using make-up. Like most things in like though, it's better used in moderation.

Your mother has probably also seen the eight year olds walking around the mall wearing make-up and she doesn't want you to fall into that trap. I would just let your mom know you would like to start using maybe mascara, a little blush and maybe colored lip gloss. Maybe you could ask her to show you how to put it on. But, you just otherwise need to let her know you're not interested in making yourself look slutty, which is what a lot of mothers worry about concerning their daughters and make-up. Stay away from the eye shadow - you definately don't "need" it right now.

One more important thing to remember - as you grow up, try not to compare yourself to others. Don't feel that because someone else is doing (or not doing) something, that you should be doing the same. One of the most important things you can learn in life is to learn to march to your own drummer.

Answer 3

Well I started wearing make badly at your age... i didnt know how to put it on and nobody wanted to teach me.. i kept on experimenting as i got older and i still do..

heres some tips for you..
dont use face makeup at your age.. like concealer or foundation.. your so young and have beautiful skin so don't harm it.. when you get older buy this makeup called.. Bare Escentuals.. its mineral makeup that is wonderful for your face and complexion.. the reason I said to wait is because for a startup kit it costs about $60.. but it definately is worth it..

Don't overdo your makeup.. just a little can go a long way.. Simply use a mascara.. cover girl makes really good mascaras at an affordable price.. also put a little shimmer or light eyeshadow.. very little and use a little lip stick.. thats all you need to look fabulous..

try and use the most organic and safe for sensitive skin products because the chemicals they put in some of the makeups will irritate and hurt your skin.. when your older go to a makeup store and they will help you with everything.. its a lot of fun..

have fun and don't be afraid to try something new.. whats the worse that could happen?? you was it off?? have fun girlie..

Answer 4

I congratulate you! In today's society, that's a pretty hard thing to avoid. Your mom has a point in not wanting you to wear makeup yet. It can really make you become self-conscious, and lead you to put on WAY too much makeup (I'm in high school, and believe me, I see a lot of this). If you're willing to keep it basic (blush, mascara, eye shadow, lip gloss), and you really want to start wearing makeup, you should talk to your mom (but make sure you have her permission, she really does know best!). Offer a reasonable plan, places you will and won't wear makeup, how much you'll wear, etc. I don't mean to be blunt, but she probably doesn't want you to end up looking like a tart (like those 8 year olds you see in the mall). I wouldn't say there's an average age anymore, because it's not like once you turn a certain age, you always wear makeup. I know girls my age (16) who don't wear makeup and they look great. My advice: If it's something you really want, talk to mom, keep it simple, and don't get caught up. I know smoky eyes might be all the rage right now, but just keep it natural looking, it really is best. Makeup should accentuate your best assets, not completely re-do your face.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Well I'm a sophomore in high school now and I really started wearing makeup when I was starting high school. I wear concealer, foundation, blush, bronzer, eyeshadow, mascara, eyeliner, and sometimes lipstick/lipgloss/lipliner. It would sound like I'm really insecure and trying to hide a lot, but the only thing I'm hiding is my freckles. I just like the way all the other stuff looks, as long as I put it on to look as natural as I can get it. I actually feel pretty great about myself. As for the eight year olds you've seen wearing makeup, I think kids that young look hideous in makeup. Don't do anything your mom won't allow you to do, but remember to feel good about yourself, makeup or no. and don't worry, it's never too late for makeup. If anything, it can be too early in some cases (like the 8 year olds - lol!) hope i helped!

Answer 6

You shouldn't feel left out. I'm 24 and never wore more than a little eyeshadow and mascara which I stared wearing at about 17. Who are these 8 year olds with make up on? That's way too young. Just because everyone else is wearing it doesn't mean you should feel like you have to. Be your own person and do what your mom says. Plus most of the guys I've known like natural skin. They don't like all that crap caked on.

Answer 7

It is my opinion, as a father of 4, that wearing make up is an adult thing to do. I realize however the desire you must have for wanting to wear it. It makes you feel and look pretty. It would also help you deal with peer pressure I'm sure. Your mom loves you and it's hard for her to let you grow up. To her you will always be her baby. I think 13 is too yound for make up. But that's just my opinion. I would suggest you ask your mom if she would let you wear one certain type of make up. A clear lip gloss and maybe a little cheek stuff. (Sorry I don't know what all the make up stuff is called 8~) ) Ask her to help you put it on. This way she gets to determine how much you wear and you get to wear it. Win / Win. Maybe after a while you could ask to wear more. Just don't do it on your own. If your mom finds out you have been doing it without permission you may never get to wear while you live at home. I have a little girl that is almost 3. I would not want her to wear make up til she is 15 but if I feel she is mature enough before then I will allow it. Also remember this, at age 13 your body (including your skin) is going thru many changes. If you cover your whole face with make up you will be blocking pores that need oxygen. This may result in pimples. You want pimples? I know the answer to that. 8~) So if you get to wear it be smart, don't overdue it.

Answer 8

You need to figure out why you must wear makeup so early on. Peer pressure? Self-esteem? Covering imperfections? The best tip would be do not give in to peer pressure, you will deeply regret it later. Also, when you see so called 8yo with makeup, what is your first impressions as well as girls your age?
You know how much is too much, so go light-no coverup, foundation etc. To accent your attributes, especially at your age, light colored lip gloss and a soft blush will do just fine, you can add on as you get older. And purchase the inexpensive brands first so you won't waste money on colors you hate.
As for mom, does your mother wear makeup? If so, she is probably concerned with you growing up, or looking too grown too soon. It's a natural reaction, so respect her for that and continue to discuss with her why you would feel better if you were allowed to experiment. DO NOT wear eyeliner, dark mascara, eyeshadows, just yet. Give yourself and your mother time to adjust to the changes. And remember, beauty is on the inside not outside-have you seen celebrities without makeup YIPES!

In all, go light and be beautiful within.

Answer 9

I understand what you're saying. Try a natural look. Look at some fashion magazines and chose a girl who you like the makeup on. Remember that you aren't going to look exactly like her since hers was done by an adult, but it's a good start. With a natural look you'll look very pretty with out overdoing it. If you do it well enough your mom might not notice you have make up on anyway. I started wearing makeup when I was 14. I don't think you're "late."

Answer 10

Start by just wearing a little lip gloss, at 13 you probably do not need such make-up, I think a good age for make up is 15, and lastly I would not feel bad because eight year olds have no business wearing mascara but that is up to their mothers.