2006-12-24 03:39:52 · 18 answers · asked by norah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he told me he wanted kids, he came home from work and asked how my day was i told him (i had only found out that day also) he got up from the table and left, its been 3 days i called him he told me he didnt want me to call or even try contacting him, and im really scared , abortion isnt an option
2006-12-24 04:02:50 · update #1
this will be our 1st child, well if he doesnt come back my first child
2006-12-24 04:04:51 · update #2
OMG what kind of men are thos who left thier wives because they r pregnant
i am too confused and feel sorry for u
i dont know what u can do its really hard situation but u can talk to his family or his friends may anyone help u
2006-12-24 03:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no kind of excuse for him leaving you at all. I know that it'll be hard for you to get over him afterall, he is your husband. Keep your head up and just pray about. God only put more on you than you can handle and he'll help you get through this. It's still his child too so when he does decide to come back to his senses let him know that you guys can only be mutual friends for the baby's sake.
2006-12-24 06:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o sweetie i m sooooooooo sorry,dnt get an abortion. 99% of women who hv them regret it afterwards and there r tons of side affects that go along w/ it and having a miscarriage the next time u do get pregnant is almost always a def. and breast cancer is extremely high to get also........if he really loved you he wouldn't b doing this to you. if you hv a church that you attend go talk w/ a pastor or at least seek Godly men and women to help you cope w/ this situation..congratulations..and shame on him 4 not b n a real man... babies are a precious gift from God...i hav 5 and they r a joy.
2006-12-24 03:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Momma An-g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would have to be the saddest thing i have heard.. but it goes back to why.. did he not want children? was he clear in saying that? did you secretly get pregnant? this is too vague of a question hunny.. if he is gone.. then so be it.. you have tons of support to help you.. it is his loss.. ultimately the childs.. but if he is cowardly enough to leave this soon in the game.. then think of how he would react later in the game.. im so sorry hun.. im very very sad for you .. keep your head up.. and if he wants to be a sperm donor.. rather than a daddy.. that is his sad loss.. and he will still need to pay for 18 years.. regardless if he wants it or not.. he played.. he will pay.. good luck
2006-12-24 03:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to stress first of all...its bad for the baby.
Second of all....sit down and figure out what you want. Should he change his mind and want to come back, do you want him to?? Do you want him to because of the baby or because you truely want him back?? And you have to find out why he left you. For another woman? Because he's scared or doesnt want kids??
Just do alot of thinking for YOU...dont worry about him. If he really doesnt want to be with you then it wasnt meant to be and there is someone out there who will love you and your baby no matter what!
Good luck hun!
2006-12-24 03:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by alexis73102 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! how many kids do you have with him? No man should ever leave because they helped you make the baby so why cant they just be man a take care of there responsibility.. do what your heart tells you to do! how far along are you?
good luck:)
2006-12-24 04:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by shorty_2_us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby left cause you are preggo? WOW, he sounds like a piece of shite! Forget him, you don't need him. You deserve better than an azzhole that is going to leave a pregnant woman!
Good Luck to you hun and Merry Christmas
2006-12-24 03:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him. Seriously if he is acting like that, that's pathetic in my opinion. Doesn't sound like a real man to me. There are tons of single parents out there. I was one for a while myself and well, you will meet someone who will love you and your child regardless. Just sounds like your husband is a dick
2006-12-24 04:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All though he left, that child is STILL his. I would suggest you get yourself a lawyer, he should have to pay child support. Congrats on the baby and sorry about your jerk of a husband
2006-12-24 03:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Terra_chan 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well any man who would dessert his pregnant wife before christmas is a terrible person, but what happened, why did he leave, i cant give you an honest answer without first knowing the problem, but i think you should find someone who will treat you right.
2006-12-24 03:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋