I've been rly sad for the past 3 months. First i hated school and wanted to transfer but ddnt get the strength and got over it. Then came the fear of death and life and everything..i jst told myself i had to 4get about it all and got over it. I lost all self confidence, im confused all the time, im totally lost. I hate myself, how i look and the way i treat others around me, i dnt even deserve the life and things im given, i dnt deserve other ppl's love they're way 2 good for me..I recently met a guy and hes rly nice and is worth it but i feel so inferior and dnt deserve him. I hate myself, i rly do, i used 2 be rly strong and fight all the time but now i jst find myself unable to push myself up.. I self harmed a few times and stopped eating and i feel so sad, i can cry any moment and feel so fragile n sensitive all the time.. I talked with my best friend and she said i should get professional help but i jst cant do it.. plz i need help..wats wrong with me? what can i do?
2006-12-24 02:57:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I know you said you feel you can't get professional help, but I think it would be the best thing for you. A professional can help you understand why you feel the way you do and can assist you in finding ways of coping with life.
It may seem to you that you are the only one who feels or has felt this way - but you are not. I have been there and I have gotten through it. You can too!
Remember you are a beautiful and worthwhile individual. You are unique and you must give yourself a chance.
Best wishes.
2006-12-24 03:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by cat m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something may have triggered this depression in you. Depression causes actuall changes in your body/brain chemistry, which often leads us to be more depressed. Sometimes we can snap out of it, sometimes we can not. Thats where medication comes into play.
I am not sure if your unwillingness to get help comes from not wanting to take meds but sometimes that combined with therapy is what we need to get out of the rut we are in. Otherwise we just get deeper.
My sister was kinda in the same situation....16 years ago. She used to be so strong and full of life. She was the one no one could push around. I am not sure what happened but I could give you a timeline that shows how she has progressivly gotten worse. We have seen her suffer with this for 16 years and now her behavior is simply irratic. She has abandoned her kids and now never leaves the house but maybe once a month.
Im with your friend go to someone that can help you...if not it only gets worse.
2006-12-24 03:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are depressed, BUT I am not a psychiatrist and this is not something you treat over the I-net. Your friends advice was right on. Tell your parents, see your family doctor and you will probably be given so sort of antidepressant. You say that you just can't do this. Ask yourself the question: What happens if I don't do this. It leads no where good. My wife always says that she never saw a busy person that was depressed. Get involved. Do good deeds. It will make you feel better about yourself. Still,
GET PROFESSIONAL HELP, PLEASE! People love and care about you. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for them. lew
2006-12-24 03:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by Larry W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, it is so sad. My immediate idea (and it might not apply to you) is that your crutches have broke down on you. Those crutches might be the neurotic ideals you have got from your peers, your parents, TV commercials, culture, religion. My very subjective thought is that you need to find yourself. Do you know what your talents are? Do you know how to love yourself?
You sound depressed. Is there something that you are fixated on that would make you happy but you can't have it? If it is realistic can you make small goals toward it? If it is neurotic can you get into some sort of support group?
I know that there are defenses and resistance to change. I pray you can get past them.
2006-12-24 03:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Russell W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you were able to talk to a friend, but you need to talk to an adult at school or a parent. Is there a counselor at your school?
If you talk to an adult, they will be able to get you professional help if you need it.
There are resources online as well. It's best to get help from people who are qualified. Also, be careful about who you trust on the internet. There are people out there who look for someone going through a hard time and they will take advantage of the person.
http://www.kasamba.com/landingpages/depression/depression.aspx?desid=22,22,22,22,22,22,22,22,22&sortby=9,9,9,9,9,9,9,9,9&banid=10845
2006-12-24 04:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by TKD Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go get some help. Or just stop sweating all of the small stuff. Stop thinking I do not deserve this, make time for yourself.
2006-12-24 03:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to believe in god
2006-12-24 03:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋