what should i do to save myself from getting raped????
(happened with me once but i was saved..)
2006-12-24 02:56:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1) Be cautious while making new friends
2) Avoide being too intimate with strangers
3) Avoide late night outings,but if unavoidable stay with your close friends or ask them to drop you to your home
4) Avoide venturing alone at nights,but if you must try to be in crowded places ie. instead of using back alleys use main roads
5) You should consider joining some self-defence/martial arts classes
6) Carry some handy self-defence equipments like Pepper Spray,Mace Spray (if you can get them).Otherwise simply carry a pouch of pepper powder as it can be handy too.
7) Lastly,If you have to resist using force,place your keys (any key about 2"-3" long will do) between yourfingers and punch at the assailants face
Hope you won't have to use any such measures in future,Good Luck
2006-12-24 03:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well see life is very beautiful and each second u missing is that part of your life which never going to come again. So don't waist your time in worry. Just enjoy the life. And about rape I think if you will not give other person to take interest in you in sexual sense than u never going to face that situation in your life. Make friends and find love but always show them how true u are. Never try to show over.
2006-12-26 16:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not 2 go alone from streets dat r dark n without any person around. Always hve ur cell phone with you. Carry chilli spray like things 2 protect urself. Don't talk 2 strangers at all. N if they disturb u better don't get into argument n skip from dat situation wen ur alone. If ur driving late night alone better close car completely. I mean also cover its window. n don't open it 4 any type of stranger.
Drive safe n be safe
2006-12-25 00:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first calm down girl
i have seen 3 ? already i guess u have got the answers what u needed but know do one thing for sure talk to ur parents what happened afcourse take martial art training to get confident to go out for ur self ur only 14 i guess don't let this thing happen again so just be alert an be in good company
talk to Ur parents n guardian about whats going in Ur mind due that incident n just try to not let this incident harm Ur mind or future in if possible try forget it like an bad dream or something I'm not saying this just for saying purpose i have gone through what u have gone through but my case was worst then urs
happy Christmas
god bless you
2006-12-25 04:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a rosary round your next. It will acheive 2 things, if the guys a wierdo, he'll get the message! Second Mother Mary really protects I believe this because it happened to me once!
Also please dont send wrong signals to people. Most the rapists are known people who thing you are a easy game! Act tough and with people who try to act funny, give them a hint that someones watching you!
2006-12-26 06:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by indiangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont g out with people who maybe just "happen" to mention sex in conversations, if you find some condoms in a drawer GET OUT FAST, dont get drunk at parties(thats how it usually happens), and if someone puls down your pants pull them right back up and slap them, then run screaming so that someone will see you. this hasn't happened to me but i've read books about this sort of thing...speak would be one of them...
answer some of my wuestions too please!(this is on every answer i do)
2006-12-24 11:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by elphie44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self defense classes. Contact your local police dept or center for rape and domestic violence and they will tell you where to get instructional safety information (probably a one day class) and where to go for self defense.
2006-12-24 11:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obeserve each n every person wheather he is hot or not.
Indications:-
1) if he is keeping his hands in his pocket.
2) observe his looks, wheather he is seeing into your eyes or seeing your private parts.
3) observe his lips, it would be dry if hes really hot.
etc....
if u find this type of men, keep distance
2006-12-25 02:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by tushargohel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obeserve each n every person wheather he is hot or not.
Indications:-
1) if he is keeping his hands in his pocket.
2) observe his looks, wheather he is seeing into your eyes or seeing your private parts.
3) observe his lips, it would be dry if hes really hot.
etc....
if u find this type of men, keep distance
2006-12-24 22:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u neednt to do anything simply wear sensible clothes and u may try self defence classes also a protection like pepper spray would be great
2006-12-26 00:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by sweetboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋