I always find myself falling for a straight guy. I don't know what it is but I do. And they flirt with me but they don't actually think anything about it. Can anyone help me???
2006-12-24 02:47:26 · 10 answers · asked by antichristdrew 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I guess it's just the thought of turning the tables that makes us gays to be with a straight guy...
2006-12-24 03:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Alex J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... I don't know any real straight guys who would flirt with a gay guy. Maybe the guys you are attracted to are not ready to express themselves yet. I mean attraction comes from the physical as well as the time invested in knowing an individual. If it's becoming to much to bare, then maybe you need to start hanging around my more gay guys. Maybe you like a challenge and that's why become attracted to some straight guys. I suggest that you calm down and take a hot bath and just work on you and what you want in life. Do you want to go on late night creep adventures with a variety of men or are you ready to settle down. Whatever you do be honest about your actions and always use protection to avoid any unnecessary drama. I hope these words helped and contact me if you wish.
2006-12-24 03:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by heavenly_bluestar1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter why - it matters what you DO about it.
Sit around & mull? vs. doing something constructive with your time.
Everyone has sexual feelings sometimes toward others who are either unavailable, too old, too young, or just an unworkable match; this is a part of human life that does not go away with time. The difference between a maladaptive response & a healthy response is merely the difference between self-absorbed pining for what we cannot have and the clear-eyed, realistic understanding that there are lots of attractive people I will run into for my whole life and I can appreciate this quality merely as an aspect of living as a human, that's all.
Think about it.
;-)
2006-12-24 03:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by WikiJo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you seek the location of those whom share your desires. I am sure there are places on the Internet or local clubs that you may find a companion. As a straight male, I was once approached by a male seeking another male. The incident was embarrassing for both of us, though now my wife and I laugh about it.
2006-12-24 02:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by david42 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt very much they are flirting wtih you. Just because someone is giving you attention does not mean flirting. That is something that many people confuse.
You dont know what to do? stay away from them. Or get your butt kicked one day.
Yikes.
2006-12-24 02:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull from straight guy.
Maybe, you fall in love couse you have woman heart.
2006-12-24 03:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by dafina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you crave masculine men, then you should date bearish looking men as they seem to be very masculine and they always seem to do the whole straight acting thing perfectly.
2016-03-29 05:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u like the challenge of the unattainable. maybe u r competitive in nature. im a lesbian and flirtatious in nature and this happens to me all the time,,,stra8 guys think i like them in that way,,,, peoples personality is diffirent,, dont fret,,its not urs or their fault ur so cute ;)
2006-12-24 03:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by hopeless_romantic_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alas, it happens. Sometimes the reason is that you suspect they're actually just closet gays. It happens to the best of us, but unless they're actually bi/gay, nothing is going to happen and you have to accept that - killer though it is.
2006-12-24 03:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Modern Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your gaydar checked, and then get yourself over to the gay clubs and other gay social events. don't flirt outside of them until you've got your gaydar finely tuned.
2006-12-24 02:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by elisheva.bracha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋