I love pigtails myself but untill lately I only have been wearing them at home when its too hot because I've always kept my hair in a style to hide my ears as they are really big and stick straight out and totally take over and change the way I look. But my lover loves me in high pigtails so much that I now wear them all the time for him and I just promised I'd even wear them up when he's not around. I'm wondering if he just wants me to look funny so boys don't flurt with me cause he's also very keen on cuting off all my hair.
I went out with two of my girlfriends clubbing the other night and usually I get a lot of attention but all I got just stares while my girl friends got lots of attention while some drunk was telling me I had the biggest ears he'd ever seen. I do love my relationship and would love to please him even if its embarassing Should I just get used to it and try and accept my ears the way they are or are pigtails or cropped hair for me a crime against good hair sense?
2006-12-24 02:35:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think your boyfriend has a fetish for pigtails, there is nothing wrong with that. Pigtails have been made a type of sex symbol since Britney Spears and the schoolgirl outfit thing. I would assume that it makes him horny and "in the mood". It might also find your ears very attractive. I would not worry about it, unless you find underage child pornography. It may lead to some role playing games later on down the road, but I do not see the harm in it.
2006-12-24 02:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm no wonder ur avatar has pigtails. now on 2 the serious part. ask ur bf why he wants u 2 wear pigtails talk 2 him about what u think and start wearing ur hair the way you want. remember its ur hair and ur body not ur boyfriends. and hun why should u care what others think? there are worse things then big ears, and also the whole i didn't get attetion part. u hav a BF! u have enough attention! maybe ur bf is trying to get u to see the real u and mybe thats why hes insisting on pigtails! evr think of that!
2006-12-24 02:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by dauschaundlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe you should be as self conscious about your ears. Obviously, your lover thinks you along with your ears are beautiful. Believe me, if he had a problem with your ears, you would know. Because pigtails are commonly wore by women they have become widely accepted by men as being attractive. Pay no attention to that drunk at the bar...he was just drunk.
2006-12-24 02:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lost me with wanting you to wear pigtails even when he is not around. He shouldn't be dictating to you what you do with your hair. If your gut reaction is telling you that he wants you to look strange so that you don't attract other boys, go with that. He sounds like an Olympic class control freak. Trust me, it's not the pigtails he likes. It's making you do what he wants.
2006-12-24 02:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your facial features. Some women look adorable or downright gorgeous with pigtails, while others look really ridiculous.
I don't think your lover wants to make fun of you, although that could be possible. He might just like this style on you, but if you ask me, pigtails on girls have a meaning related to sex. It makes most guys think of schoolgirls in porn or that image of little girls.
If you're not comfortable with this hairstyle and it doesn't suit you, be what you are. Stop trying to please him. He shouldn't expect you to wear them even when he's not around. That's ridiculous.
2006-12-24 02:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Cheshire Riddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't change who you are or the way you look for somebody else. Be yourself. Your boyfriend sounds like somebody you should lose. He should want to be with you know matter how you look instead of trying to change you. Wear your hair the way you feel like wearing it. And don't worry about your ears...lol. I'm sure they're not as bad as you think.
2006-12-24 02:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but he sounds demanding! he should let you fix your hair the way you want it, not just the way he wants it. He shouldnt care if other guys flirt with you as long as you dont flirt back. He should be happy that he has you and they dont...with or without the pigtails!
2006-12-24 02:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my gosh, I'm sorry but he just sounds weird... Why are you with this guy? He's telling you how to wear you hair!!! Telling, not recommending. But what I don't understand is why you'd love to please him even if it's embarrasing and makes you miserable and lowers your self esteem! Sorry but I wouldn't go out with him in the first place. But it's your life. talk to him about it and talk to your friends about it. This is a little strange. Good luck and happy holidays. :)
2006-12-24 06:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by Didi B. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds demanding... wanting you to stickyour hair the way HE wants it. Stick it the way you want it... and tell whoever makes fun of your ears to shoveit up their @$$es.
2006-12-24 02:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by random10431325 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love pigtails. My ex surprised me once and we had the best secs ever!
2006-12-24 02:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by AL IS ON VACATION AND HAS NO PIC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋