I've just been having an awful month...my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me, my friend won't stop ditching me for more popular kids...and I know it's almost Christmas and I know I should be happy...but I need a hobbie or something so I don't think about any of this, what can I do so that I'm happier?
2006-12-24 02:28:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's not the end of the world, get busy by taking care after yourself, spoil yourself, go to the gym work out.. go to the spa.. relaxing body and your mind, go shopping for yourself.. it's good for your soul ;)..
before you know it you'll be shining bright.. you'll look happy, healthy and fabulous, people who hurts you will turn their head and feel foolish.. so what losing boyfriend and bestfriend? big deal.. you'll get another them in a minute (like beyonce's lyrics in her latest song "irreplaceable" )..
smile!
2006-12-24 02:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you need a hobby. Try a sport that wants alot of energy..like tennis, soccer, running...try anything. Sports let ur brain release endorphins that make you happy so this a first step to take. Is there something u've been wanting to do? Maybe like getting better grades, eating healthier, socialising whatever you want..try focusing on reaching ur goal..And when u do, enjoy it.. It'll keep u busy and make u rly happy. As in for ur friend forget about her, find someone else, she'll soon realize what she lost. If she doesnt come back then she's not what u should call a friend. Find better ppl, have fun, enjoy ur life, dnt let anything or anyone keep u from living ur life...U deserve to have fun jst like everyone else...Dnt waste time on ppl who arent even worth it.. Enjoy the fact that ur single and make the best out of what u have..gd luck! u can do it...
2006-12-24 10:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would make a new friend. Try to find someone who interests you and talk to them. Be a REALLY good listener. Let them talk and you listen. Learn more about this person and their problems or reasons for excitement. When you do this, you take your mind away from your own personal problems while helping someone else who is struggling to work through something or simply needs someone to care. This is a great way of becoming healing your own hurts and becoming "happier". Even though it might not provide instant relief, I believe it will help in the long run. Good Luck!!! And, sorry about your painful moments.
2006-12-24 10:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by faithloveseternally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your "friend" is not a friend if she's ditching you at a time like this. You should reconsider who your real friends are. There a plenty of things you can do to feel better. Take care of yourself emotionally: Ever thought about volunteering at a nursing home? Get involved with your local church. Like you said, it's Christmas, and you would be surprised to know that there are a lot of people out there who are in need of food, clothes, shelter, and LOVE. Take care of yourself mentally: Of course, you could also spend time with yourself. I would recommend Reading. It's not boring if you find the right books. Check out your local library. Take care of yourself physically: Pamper yourself and Go Shopping with family and good friends, and play some volleyball! Merry Christmas!
2006-12-24 10:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't state your age, but I have a feeling you are in your teens. I think really appreicating what YOU DO HAVE, is critical to happiness. I would start by going to church ASAP, if you don't care for that, then I would call the Untied Way and tell them that you want to Volunteer. They have several resources and can find just the right posistion for you.
If you volunteer YOU WILL BE HELPING OTHERS, which will bring you much needed self-esteem. Volunteering to help those less Fortunate then you, will also make you appreicate what YOU DO HAVE.
You can always try the old remedy of finding another guy, but volunteering your time to a cause you believe in will help you GROW into a self-confindent and happy person, who appreciates everyday that you have on earth!
Think about it!
2006-12-24 10:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Trish V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you should look deep inside yourself and find something that you use to do that brought a smile to your face. B/f , And people come and go all the time in and out of are lives. Only children seem to stick around to long some time, But we love them anyway. Just find enter peace with yourself. And then you can truly be happy.
2006-12-24 11:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh--I'm sorry! Think about past memories that made you happy--think about things when you were growing up. You have the ability to pull yourself out of this and be whatever you want to be--you'll be fine--it's hard right now--but with time and perseverance, you'll come out on top and be a better and much stronger person.
2006-12-24 10:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with your family. Go places with them and have fun with them. They won't ditch you or anything. So you should just hang out woth your family and soon you will be happy. Hoped that helped. Merry Christmas!
2006-12-24 10:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by finalkeyblade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to some old age home and spend time with people who are so lonely in life.By making someone happy, you maybe happier.
2006-12-24 10:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a famous dictum goes-" Happiness is not getting things you like but liking things you get".
Very difficult to adapt indeed.Believe this situation is created by destiny for your better future- better people to come across, and better chances to WIN.
2006-12-24 10:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Devpen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋