what to do when life gives u something u dont want ??????

Question

what do u do when life gives u something u never wanted, instead of something u always did and moreover how do deal with all that unwanted jealousy and pain when everyone around u has that sumthing except u ????????

Answer 1

Smile and say thank you.

Every experience makes you better.

Answer 2

Work and keep on working for that which you want until you have it. And, really, don't wory about what others do or do not have. You have no control over anyone other than yourself. Remember, there is someone out there who just wishes he was in your shoes.

Answer 3

Perhaps it's time for a little self evaluation.
If everyone around you has that one thing you want and you don't perhaps you should look at what they are doing versus what you are doing and realize that change is needed.

Answer 4

I takes it with the understanding that " there is nothing truly vain the One has made". I try to see some divine purpose behind anything that happens in our life.

Answer 5

try to understand that it's not for you possibly. maybe what is given to you is you being given to another situation. we personally are this small minute object it a scene that is being played out. maybe your situation is affecting someone you will never know in order to affect a much greater situation.

Answer 6

Smile, because it could be a blessing in disguise.

Answer 7

if you want you need if you need you want as with all things it always seams that we dont have what we want or need .celabrate what all around you have in that why you well have a part in it and it in you

Answer 8

Put it in the trash bin.

Answer 9

Stop comparing and should be happy.

Answer 10

you have to adjust in life - if you are disturbed or broke then you will be laughing stock in society