Do you have any relatives or family members you don't like? If so, what relationship do you have with them and

Question

what bad things do they do?

Answer 1

I hate my Aunt and her daughter! They are so stuck up. When people ask me if I'm related to them I lie and say I don't even know them. I'm not looking forward to seeing them tommorow! I can't stand my Uncle either, he's the biggest ****** in the world!
They act like they are so much better than me, because I work and all they do is sponge off of their husbands. And because I'm not married, they act like I'm an old maid, even though I'm only 21!
I do love to see my parents and my sisters though.

Hopefully Christmas dinner will go by easily tommorow, or I might choke all three of them! But, after I have a drink of wine maybe my nerves will be better.

Answer 2

It's sad to say, but there's a lot of my family members who I don't like. Most of them are racist and homophobic, they're just down right narrow minded. I don't really have any kind of a relationship with them.

I think the time when I lost all respect for them was when my Uncle died and all they cared about was who was going to get his stuff.

Answer 3

i would call it a civil standoffish relationship,,,, we , i, try to be polite when we must be together,, when they get too much for me,, i go into another room or out to smoke,,,,,,,,,,they, my sisters-in-law, mostly,,, have a better then thou attitude,, often,,,,, and also, are just very different then me,,,,, they also dont always get along with each other,,, my brothers pretty much stay out of it all, i have 4, but yet 2 of them, as grown men, actually got in a fist fight over some crap their wife's had started!! one example of how a particular one is a pain,,,, my mom passed away this last Oct, i was the one doing the arrangements etc all week, when we all arrived at a aunts house for the funeral,,, this odd woman decided to use it as a family photo shoot opportunity!! she didnt seem to know the difference in a family reunion and a funeral,,,, was acting like it was a party, and ignoring me telling her no, i didnt want my picture taken, i just walked away,,,, this is the same woman, that when i first meet her years ago, said to me "oh your the black sheep of the family" lol

Answer 4

RIght now, I would have to say they all make me mad. They came late for dinner, did not offer to help at all, rushed for the turkey drumstick the moment it was cut and then just sat around. Mind, my parents just said that this year they will come over for Christmas dinner and not asked if I minded hosting it but I didn't quibble over this. My hubby was so mad at them, and indirectly at me. So beside myself being made at my family, I was caught in the middle. I wept myself to sleep last night. Oh and did I add, for weeks some of them asked whether there was anything I wanted in particular for Christmas and then they came empty handed and I was the only one who bought presents. It's not that I want to sound petty but sometimes, they can be so inconsiderate. Sorry - besides letting off steam, I don't have any solution for you.

Answer 5

I have one that I have spoken to 2 times in 10 years. That was my brother. We spoke when my Dad died almost 3 years ago, and again when my Mom died a year ago. I have no intention of ever speaking to or seeing him again. He likes to scream at people at the top of his lungs. His way is the only way. In his mind we should all put up with his crap and if we don't he will scream louder. other relatives have had enough of his crap also and don't speak to him.

Answer 6

Right now I would have to say it is my brother. He has sponged off my mom for so long I dont even know how long it has been. This year he did something that caused CPS to step in and tell his wife she either takes the kids with her to a shelter or they take them away. Now mind you this is all when he is unemployed and they all live at my mom's house. He is lazy and lays around all day. Well now that his family is gone my mom feels sorry for him. He will be there at Christmas and so forth acting like he walks on water. It just drives me crazy. So are you glad you asked me to dump on you.

Answer 7

The father says to the aunt, I say Uncle and you jump.
The niece says to the brothers I say Uncle and you pump.
The grandmas says to the aunt on a visit, I see you have one
more kid than the last time we visited. She says Ted when
did you visit him? So they fell in the handpump trough and
the cow ate the granola bars as they floated out of Teds
pockets when he visited the well for a refresher. Yep thats the
usual.

Answer 8

my mother in law...after 10 years being married to her son she told him she hasn't liked me since the day she met me,yet she came to our wedding,sans gift none the less,i am the mom to the only grandchild she will ever see since hubby is an only child and mine will be an only child also..she just is a mean spirited,self centered lady who thinks the world revolves around her..when we do go visit,which isn't often,she basically ignores me...i have no relationship with her,if she calls and hubby is at work i do not answer the phone..granted she is a 91 y/o lady ands maybe i should be the bigger person here but it ain't gonna happen

Answer 9

i can't stand some of my cousins and aunts since they talk much behind my back and they don't even admit it! They don't really know that i'm quite irritated by tehm..at most times, i just act normal but deep inside i want to shout out how i feel

Answer 10

my cousins wife..she wont stay around and visit with us..we always make her feel welcome(so we think)but she wont talk back if you ask her something..like she is better than us! and she will leave the dinners after dropping the kids off...i swear we are friendly and inviting yet she still wont talk to us....and i have another cousin that always screams at her kids and it gets annoying fast...other than that my family is great!