my fiance is in merchant navy he told me person working in his ship go to call girl every 1 is of this type. i wana know does he is indulged in it plz tll me when i asked him he refused
2006-12-24 01:50:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if the same question i ask to u what will be the u r answer if u have enough time for marrage so u can keep an eye on him at least for a week u will come to know his habbits or to be very frank with u sorry am telling it openly if a man had sex so his panis forskin comes backwords & never goes upside after it breaks so this is an identification but this always not done in some cases bye
2006-12-24 18:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you knew nothing about the sailors world. He gave you a sneak preview and now you are suspecting him. Do you honestly think he would have jeopardized his position with you by tell you what goes on if he was one of them? You asked him and he said no, so what’s the problem? Why don’t you trust him? A relationship without trust is like a building without a foundation; when it eventually falls down a lot of people are going to get hurt. I suggest you should trust him if you are going to marry him. Wishing you and your family, “A Merry Christmas & A Happy New Year.”
2006-12-24 14:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the very fact that he refused indicates that he might have indulged, specially when he says that all use to do it. It is a question of your own acceptance level. If it is ok for you then just ignore his past, trust him and look positively towards your future together. If you don't feel comfortable then discuss it with him and then decide the course of your relationship.
2006-12-27 13:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by raindrops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is no way to know it unless u parade him in front of all the call gals to whom his friends go and they all refuse to identify him or someone identifies him as one who has been with her. U have no option but to believe ur own hunches and his word. There is no virginity test for men though some claim there is one for girls/ladies ( i personally dont believe in that test cause it is not foolproof).
Hope for the best as far as ur bf is concerned. he might be telling the truth as well as a lie
Good luck
2006-12-24 13:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sumit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to have an HIV test done of him and ask him to forget the past and everything what had happened. Tell him that you can be his personal call girl after marriage only if he swears by GOD and his would be children, not to go to any other woman. BECAUSE IT CAN BE DANGEROUS FOR BOTH OF YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN, IF he is going to a call girl. AIDS CAN HAPPEN AND RUIN THE LIFE OF ALL... remember if he becomes HIV positive then DO NOT MARRY HIM...
2006-12-25 14:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pathologically there is no way you can tell if a man has ever had a sexual intercourse or not.
You should not be too anguished on this account except to know if he is infected with HIV or any other sexually transmitted disease.
If you are worried about this factor you must insist on him taking the appropriate tests specially since he is unwilling to be honest with you about his sexual activities.
2006-12-24 10:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Papillon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow doubts to grow in your mind. Trust him or you will suffer for rest of your married life. There is no way you can tell even if he is dumb fellow. Please do not sow the seed of sorrow in your garden of marriage. The first stone you are laying is of doubts, doubts cannot be proved. Ask him straight and tell him to say the truth be prepared for the answers. If he is a real guy and trust you he will tell you the truth else there are many married couples in this world who live on fake promises and you will be one of them.
2006-12-24 10:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Such matters are question of trust and confidence. Simply getting yes or no answers may not satisfay our suspecions. Better not to have suspecion. Once we get suspecion reflecting some thing wrong in relations.
2006-12-24 11:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by naren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its about trust baby if i say this it sounds similar as u have thought in ur mind ....better both sit together and have a chat on all things this is the only way if u ask him for tests and all do it in a proper way get urself also tested so that this move doesnot effect ur relations for future......
2006-12-27 05:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by shiva k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask him and he refuses to tell you, then he did go to a call girl. but if he says clearly that he did not go to a call girl, then you have the choice to believe him or not. personally, it sounds to me like he has slept with other women, otherwise, why wouldn't he just say 'no'?
2006-12-24 17:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋