what if i fail???

Question

im so nervous. i had this BIG test this year and the results are coming out this coming thursday (28th). i pretend like i dont really care. i tell all my friends that i dont care and that if i dont get 8a's im not gonna cry or anything.

and first of all b4 u call me stupid or anything, im not stupid. its just that this year is my laziest year. i studied at the really last minute like a week b4 when people from other skools have prepared like months before. i told my friends bout how i studied and they were like 'no way!'

and the other thing is my mom. im one of those girls who are supposed to be really clever and she's hoping a lot from me (i guess). i already told her last week to not expect too much. but she's like, dont worry, ur gonna be gr8! except im not! i totally screwed my essay and dont even get me started on science and maths. and history.

sorry if this is too long but can someone just help me calm down?

Answer 1

Relax and try your best in the test !!!

Answer 2

Take a deep breath and calm down.

This has happened to nearly everyone.

No matter how big a test it was, it was just one test. It is not going to be the end of the world if you didn't do well. And, people generally assume the worst, so the odds are excellent that you really did do better than you think you did.

Also, you learned an important lesson about preparing so you won't feel this way again.

Try not to obsess over this. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Answer 3

I've been in this boat before. You're only human. We've all had these years wherein we don't put our best effort foward. But when it comes down to paying the consequences, we can really kick ourselves in the a**. But I think it's our human nature to put on our "I don't care what my grades are" face and go about our business. Listen, most times, when you get yourself all riled up, things turn out ok. But, if you happen to fail, then pick yourself up and do it over again. This will be one of your first failures in a long life of them and you can choose to hang your head over it, or you can choose to learn from it. I recommend you choose the latter. You're too bright to sit back and relax. The world needs your brains working for us. Please do your best for the betterment of society.

Answer 4

I understand. My GPA is very important to me, and I've been where you are.

Just breathe. The test is finished. And, you're not stupid.
Whatever the grade is, it is what it is.
If you did better than you expect, that's great!
If you didn't do very well, then you have to accept it and not beat yourself up over it. That can overshadow other things that you are doing and can be very damaging. Let it go.
You know what you need to do the next time, so do it.

Take care.

Answer 5

If you fail, and I don't think you will, then your mum will still be as proud of you. Don't stress, that won't change the results. Just concentrate on Christmas for now and have a good one.

Answer 6

Seems like you are going to have to get your girlfriend to distract you, b itch about your worries a bit, but not a lot. You need to do something that'll either boast your confidence about the exams or distract yourself. That's all I can say.

Answer 7

Failure is just a way of letting you know that you need apply yourself better.

Failure is nothing to fear and it happens to everyone.

I would look at myself in the mirror and say, "I did my best.", then enjoy the rest of the break

Answer 8

dust yer seldf off and try again

Answer 9

do what calms your nerves and relax

Answer 10

Just try it again.