i have a lot of frndz but i cant trust any frnd...i can only trust my bst budz... but we're not together now... i no we can use phones and e-m but i cant tell them every thing on phone and e-mails are cold...is it my prob that i cant trust my frndz.or wat???
2006-12-24 01:34:18 · 17 answers · asked by TAMARA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ps:they are good frndz but i cant trust them they are nice but i gss that u cant trust someone just coz hes/shes nice!!!
2006-12-24 01:42:37 · update #1
well...I am not sure what your problem is but suspect it is because you are still young and have a lot of growing up to do...good luck
2006-12-24 01:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think it is your fault, I mean if you have the feeling of not trusting you friends only those near budz. then there must be a reason for that. you should be glad to have someone to trust. I think that is the most important thing in your situation.
2006-12-24 01:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO!
Maybe they're really are not true friends. That may be why you can't trust them. Maybe they did you wrong in the pass and that is why you can't trust them.
I don't have any true friends. Jesus is my only friend. He is true to you and he will only tell God your problems.
Maybe some day you will find some one that will be a true friend. But for now I understand what you're going through. It's not you. It's the way the world is.
2006-12-24 01:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be offended, but this is definately your problem and not your friends...you are picking people for friends that you do not trust. Why, therefore are they your friends? Friends are people that you can trust with your secrets and your problems and the good times too. If you cannot do that with these people then they are not your friends. Snakes smile dear, but I wouldn't befriend one. Find new friends. And think better of yourself. The more you like you, the easier it will be for you to find good people for friends.
Wishing you every happiness and good luck.
2006-12-24 02:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just lacking trust in people. Spend more time on why you can't trust them. I sorta disagree with you on what you said that you can't always trust ncie friends. If you hung out with them, why can't you trust them? I mean they're your friends and you hang out with them. I think you should be a little more open with your feelings because who knows, they could actually become your close friends
Good luck
2006-12-24 04:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say there must be a reason for you not trusting weither its from past experiences or something else internal. If you don't have trust there no point in a relationship because it's what holds it together. If you don't have trust what do you have. ?????
Trust is something that is earned.
2006-12-24 01:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u need to just give u current freindships some time. They can grow to be best freinds that u can trust. Your not doing anything wrong. just have some fun with your friends!
2006-12-24 02:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by tz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u just need to open up and get 2 noe ur budz a little bit more.
if they don't lyke u then just shake them 2 tha side and go find more ppl lyke urselve.
2006-12-24 01:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Joe™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok dear that you can't trust all your friends, you said you trust your best friends so no problem
you are so normal.....i agree with you about e-mail being cold but it's better than nothing
Good luck and merry Christmas
2006-12-24 01:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will some people are just like that they cant trust any one i use to be like that but not any more
2006-12-24 01:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by walaa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can trust with the people love you
2006-12-24 01:38:20 · answer #11 · answered by moony s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋