Loving a girl but seems to be impossible!! Girls plz answer?

Question

I've been loving a girl 4 more than 3 years but i have not told her anything, because im shy, but she is in my school now not class fellow, we are family friends, we somehow talk not so much, whenever i am wit her i donno wat do say and then it iwll be finish till next time , im really crazy about her, and i know by her impression that she does not hate me but in a friendly sense, tell me what should i do? u know its not in my culture to go out with the girl alone and that will be a big question then, i just have to tell her in another ways, but i love her, (plz dont say be ur self say ur feelings) des are repeated answers and girls only solid answer
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Answer 1

Don't ask her out in a formal romantic way. It's better to ask her to hang out with you, see a movie with you, etc. Do anything but say, 'I love you.' You are not sure yet how she'll react... remember!

If you can get her to the point she sees the movie with you, you can probably throw in little suggestions of your feelings. It would soon be obvious to you how she feels as well.

Answer 2

Will I do, even though I was only a girl a very, very long time ago? I have noticed that my answers to what I would do long ago work pretty well for young people now in more old-fashioned cultures. So it goes. It is good, by the way, that you are not allowed too much freedom too soon. My generation took that sort of freedom, and it was not always to our long-term benefit. Necessary in some cases, but not easy.

So there you are, hanging out together within the bosom of your family, and can't think of things to talk about. Are board games and such pastimes a part of your culture? Sometimes having something specific you are doing helps a lot.

Or there's the old "have you read" gambit. Start with your very favorite book, and listen while she suggests her favorite, and as soon as you find one on your lists of favorites you have both read, you have something to talk about. Harry Potter is good for that in much of the English-speaking world.

What would the two of you be doing if you were not starting to feel romantic about her? Or perhaps increasingly romantic over the last several years? If she was your sister or first cousin, for example? Why not just put the romantic part to the back of your head and get to know her as a person. And let her get to know you as a person. What is important to you? What is important to her? What do each of you have as dreams for the next five to ten years?

You have come to value her enough to say you love her. Perhaps she already thinks you are pretty special, too, but has no way to say so. Just take it easy, go slow. You've been doing the slow burn all these years already, so you know you have self control. Let the whole thing take its time. But do spend as much time in her presence as you can.

Answer 3

You're going to have to be alone with her at some point, because if you tell her how you feel or ask her out in front of people that you know both of you will get embarrassed.
Catch her on her own in a corridor or after class, and ask if she will have lunch or go to the library with you. Once you are alone tell her how you like her a lot, but don't tell her that you love her just yet, as it might scare her off. Then ask her how she feels about you, and talk about the good things that you can do together and problems that your family may present. If she likes you then she'll understand. Lastly, invite her round for tea.
Good luck and happy holidays.

Answer 4

I'm sorry. I'm Boy.
I have a Suggestion. It's too Difficult. But ... maybe the best or the only way. Make Her Love You. I don't mean ask her to love you or play a role for her. Be someone that she (or any other Girl or person) may like or love. Actually, Correct yourself. Be a great man. And treat with anybody, any event, any opportunity, any ..., Positively. And make her know little by little & in special situations that SHE is Special & Different for you.
Sorry Again for impertinency.

Answer 5

When you're with her, just talk to her about anything. Ask her how she is and how she's doing. Maybe you can ask her what kind of things she likes and things like that. It won't help if you're shy, just get over your shyness and talk to her. Hmm, if she's a family friend, invite her on a date, go somewhere you both like. You should tell her how you feel sooner or later.
Good luck

Answer 6

try being more friendly and TRY talking to her if you have liked her this long you have to tell her how you feel before someone else takes her away you dont want that do you? Start a conversation something not stupid because once i went out with this guy we couldn't even talk he asked me dumb questions like what my favorite color was try saying something that you could talk for hours about but seriously TELL HER!!! You have to its the right thing.

Answer 7

Invite her to come have tea with you and your parents (without her parents, of course). When she arrives, present her with a small bunch of fresh flowers, take her coat, be a gentleman. Its easy to make conversation at the dinner table, talk about the food or school or the flowers. If you think of anything funny, make her laugh. When she's leaving, tell her you really enjoyed her company and compliment her smile (make her smile again). You could give her a box of special chocolates when she's leaving - then she'll be thinking of you when she eats them. Tell her you'd like to do it again sometime soon.

Answer 8

Well... If you do like her write down wat 2 say then call her and try 2 read it off the sheet but sound like u aren't reading anything.
but you can write down anything u want, like u could say ur feelings but i would stay away from that until u get used to talk- ing 2 her. Believe me. I didn't do it but a boy from my school did 2 talk to me. So just try to get used to talking and then a month or 2 later, just tell her like "I like u, um, i really like and if u don't like me the same way, we can just b friends." then if she says yes i like u 2 then say ok, but if she says no i don't like u the same way then say ok, can we b just friends? and i think u can take it on from there.

Answer 9

well im shy too so i tell you you should maybe text her or email her or write to her tell her how you feel and ask her how do she feel about you first