hiya,i need all your help! i have fell in love many time but i havnt felt nothing like i feel now about a boy! i really like this boy called Sean,he went out with me twice and the second time we had a fight because he thought i fancied adil because adil asked me out when sean dumped me and i said yes asi wnet off sean and he made me so upset on that day but adil siad he was only joking! adil told sean and sean didnt be my firend! he got upset! i dont know why because we broke up and went our own ways!Sean is now gonig out with another girl called Emma!He knows i still have feelings for him,when we had a fight,two days later he siad sorry and i forgavwe him and he started going out wid Emma the next day! he told my firend that imake him feel warm and comfy inside and he also told vher that he hates me abit because i told him i fancied adil.when i didnt i got so angry with so i just siad that when i diddnt! so please help me out.i luv sean to bits!
2006-12-24 01:12:23 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i jsut feel as if i trapped in a tiny box and i cant get out of it! i feel like iv lost sean forever! but i must admit i do have feelnigs of adil hwne i talk to ihm on msn but i ont have feelings for him when i talk to ihm face to face well only abit! but i feel iv lsot sean andi dunno which one to pick! sean or adil???? please help me out!!
2006-12-24 01:14:26 · update #1
i always feel like crying when i see him and his girl friend but im happy for sean as hes happy with her! adils got a girl friend too im happy for him too but i feel upset! i cant forget about them to iv ttied but i cant i see them both nearly everyday but not on saturday or sunday! and idont know what to do!!!
2006-12-24 01:16:13 · update #2
Karma? but im such a unhappy position and i need some adivce please help me please!
2006-12-24 01:17:18 · update #3
i jsut need some help because i tihkn about it all day even when i go to sleep! please help help help and .....HELP!
2006-12-24 01:18:40 · update #4
yes i could get something to eat and read but i cnt thats the thing! im just really upset about this and i need a way to get out of this horrible position!
2006-12-24 01:24:29 · update #5
no thats not ture i dont just fall inl ovev with someone woh comes to me! iv only fancieed one boy in my old school and well this is really confusing coz i dnt gt it! i do love em i know i do if i didnt i wouldnt have tehse feelings for them!!!!!
2006-12-24 01:26:20 · update #6
and i do lvoe em! so dont say i dont coz that really hurt me!
2006-12-24 01:27:55 · update #7
Okay, you need to suck it up!
It seems to me like you've been playing with these boys lives. Im not so sure your IN love with Sean if you say you still kindof have feelings for Adil. It sounds to me like your not even sure what love is. If you think because you have strong feelings for a person your in love with them, your probably wrong!
When you love some one you know it (You just do it just comes to you) But when your in love with someone every body else knows!
So if you really like this guy you should give him time! It sounds like you really hurt him, even if it was just a misunderstanding!
Hope Every Thing Works Out
BYe<33
2006-12-24 01:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by briacass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a question of Justice in the World I recommend the spiritual approach. There are numerous franchises to choose from to suit every taste, Christianity is one of my favourites, Buddhism is not bad either.
I can also get sucked into thinking that my quest for The Relationship, that all important Special Person, is the most and only important thing in my life. This can make me feel trapped as it never seems perfect or sorted out.
Try to get a breath of fresh air, with time and if you behave in a decent and sincere way, you will get whatever it is you deserve. What more or less could you really want?
In the meantime, maybe you will find that there are other people and important things to do with your life and not worry about this one area so much.
Hope that helps.
2006-12-24 09:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by mince42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers quite simple really. If bad things couldn't happen to good people, then there could not be a world where we have free will. If every time some one picked up a baseball bat to play baseball it worked fine, but when you lifted it to hit someone it disappears, then you wouldn't be free to make your own decisions. What if every time you opened your mouth to say an insult, the air that carriers sound disappears, leaving your insult unheard? If bad people couldn't choose to be bad because the universe wouldn't allow it, we'd just be puppets doing the only thing we could do, be good. As far as natural events (cancer, tornadoes), if bad things only happened to bad people and good things only happen to good people, then every one would be forced to be good. At gun point. God wanted a world where each of us was truly free to decide our own destinies. When bad things happen to good people, it is always ruff, but there's no way we could be anything but puppets without it.
2006-12-24 18:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by ed d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no god.
Water is made up of hydrogen and oxygen which are atoms. You are also made up of atoms.
All these feelings and emotions will not yield any results. Get something good to eat, read a good book and rest and be peace with yourself.
2006-12-24 09:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its Karma.
2006-12-24 09:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Booooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only god knows why these things happened
2006-12-24 09:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by walaa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋