for some reason i dunno why i can realy fantasied anythink durring sex or mastubateing.i try to relax and let myself get turnt on but it doesnt work.my doctor said there nothink wrong with my hormone level.
2006-12-24 01:12:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
firstly i have to ask was you brought up in a religious household and was you taught it was dirty to touch yourself if so that could be your problem and you need to try and relax have a hot bath and have a go at masterbation in the bath while you are relaxed
2006-12-26 05:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by arfa54321 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously a psycological problem, getting yourself into the right frame of mind isn't always an easy thing to do, many men who suffer from impotence have this.
Relaxing is part of the problem but it's also about being in the right place, taking away anything that might interupt you such as phones, people,etc.
If this is a regular thing then it's learned behaviour and can be 'unlearned' with help.
Depending on how big this issue is for you there are options such as hypnosis, seeing a psychologist, a sex therapist even.
i think you'll be surprised how many men and women struggle to get in the groove. (pun intended)
2006-12-24 03:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-02-16 08:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normally due to a guilt complex, often something picked up in childhood that you will be unable to remember the root cause of. If you are serious about resolving this and have any other problems that get worse during times of stress/anxiety, a course of hypno-analysis can get rid of the root cause. Go to www.successfulhypnotherapy.com for more details. Hope this helps. x x
2006-12-24 06:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by stephaniespectacular 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2017-02-09 21:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having feelings of guilt my dear??? There is no reason to, but maybe you have some guilt feelings about your sexuality. If this is the case my dear, let it go, remind yourself that sex is a beautiful form of expression, and you have the right to express yourself. You have to fallow your bliss my sweetness, life is to short. F#$k what society or whatever anyone else thinks. Feel free to IM me.-EVIL ERICK
2006-12-24 02:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Voodoo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This could be a psychological issue. But you shouldn't be stimulating these feelings outside of marriage anyway.
2006-12-25 21:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend that had the same problem she found a solution in the end she found out she was more atracted to women then men you could be the same
2006-12-25 05:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax more!!! I personally cyber and if u want to try e-mail me or IM. Its innocent fantasy play!!!!!
2006-12-24 04:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try watching movies that may turn you on, use toys be creative, use a mirror, or anything else you can think of. Have fun.
Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-24 02:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by Chrissy WB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋