2006-12-24 01:07:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
We should set our own limits, we all have the right to a free mind and soul, and as long it doesn't hurt nobody then I believe in being fun free and uninhibited
2006-12-24 01:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by ballyfermetbarbara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you do need to exercise a certain amount of editing, if not censoring, function. Some part of the observer of an inner fantasy has to say, "This would not work in reality because . . ." especially of ones that might hurt someone else. And I think you have to realize that fantasy is something of a blank palate upon which you can exercise your will. What, truly, do you want from the Goddess of Love? What would be the satisfying, fulfilling relationship (however complex; I'm not that big on monogamy myself) that would be proof that Venus loves you?
Let that be your fantasy, and stay away from imagining that which you would not even WANT to do in reality.
And beware of mixing sexuality with violence. That way there be demons -- lots and lots of demons.
In the sexual revolution, we want no draftees, only volunteers.
2006-12-24 01:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A completly free mind is a bad bad thing. Set some limits.
2006-12-24 01:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by goldensparkler61 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sky is the limit with fantasies. If we dont use our imaginations, we will lose them! Your fantasies give you a release, and take us away from our troubles even if just for a little while. So, dream on!
2006-12-24 01:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by LOO S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is necessary to set limits on ourselves.
As children we are taught to be aware of our conscience.
The difference between right and wrong.
If we allow ourselves (even in fantasy) to think that everything is ok then we run the risk of being an antisocial animal.
Maybe even a potential danger to our fellow creatures.
Set your own limits.....you know what they are really don't you?.
2006-12-24 01:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Apple Crumble(Devils Advocate) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!
Fantasies are rehearsals and planning.
Fantasies are self-fulfilling-prophecies.
Fantasies can be addictive and progressive taking more bizarre to give satisfaction.
Fantasies can be a substitute for real living.
Fantasies reinforce your behavior as a winner or a loser.
Exploring fantasy can reveal a neurotic fixation.
2006-12-24 01:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Russell W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person is addicted to porno, then no, the addiction will take over your life, if you are just having fantasies about your wife, then who cares as long as you think of God occasionally, even the songs of solomon say you can fantasie about your lover (wife).
2006-12-24 02:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with limits is that the act of thinking about what they should be causes us to necessarily think about those things which should be off-limits. Thus causing us to fantasise, potentially, about those things we wish we'd hadn't.
Your subconscious has limits, leave it to that part of your mind to rein you back when required.
2006-12-24 01:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean - but there's a fine line between exploring sexual fantasies and being a rapist.
2006-12-24 01:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are fine but remember they are fantasies is sometimes nice to keep fantasies as fasntasies
2006-12-24 01:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by karen H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋