2006-12-24 00:26:44 · 11 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
True friends in opposite sex is really very difficult because such friends are not sincere. They just want to grind their own axe. They cheat upon opposite sex and get sexual annd mental satisfaction. This difficulty can be overcome by mental help. If you find a friend opposite sex, it should be an abiity in you to read his mind and his gesture as well his attitude. If he is a true friend, he will behave differently. He will be intereted in your well-being and will not just be sexual with you. This ability of mind acan be achieved by mental health and experience of dealing with other persons. This mental reading is just like opening a canal towards you.
2006-12-24 00:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sex is what men think about most of the time. And if you are attractive, at one point or another, a guy friend may ask to date you or just have sex. I usually smiled and told the guys, I simply don't think of you that way. And I don't want sex to ruin our friendship. I fthey value your friendship they will respect that. If they don't, well, they weren't very good friends to begin with and you are better off without them. But if you do have sex with a friend and it just doesn't work, it is possible to still be friends.
And I speak from experience....When I was single I had two friends whom I had sex with once and I am still friends with one of them. The other, well, he was a little in mature and we still talk.
2006-12-24 01:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats a canal mind? Is that like having thoughts about constructing a canal in your back yard making it easier for ships to get to the ocean?
2006-12-24 00:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the phuck is a "canal mind"? Did you just get off the boat? Listen honey, if what you are trying to say is that men want to bang your walls, you are right. They do, and personally, I LUV it. But I have found men, not gay either, who are just good male friends. And I have to make sure I don't have a "canal mind" or whatever the phuc it is you said.
2006-12-24 00:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women and men human beings are sexual creatures. they have been designed to be attracted via, seduced via, and copulated with one yet another. now that the biology lesson is over, permit's positioned some meat in this carcass. women and men human beings could properly be asexual terrific pals yet attending to that time takes time and a brilliant form of appreciate. even then, there will be carnal thoughts ON the two factors. (see above clarification for reason). as quickly as you recognize that men, and girls human beings, can think of approximately intercourse with out having to persue those urges, then you certainly, and your male buddy's relationship will evolve to an stronger point.
2016-10-28 07:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of your mind set. Example: your mind set can be small size mesh, and opposite sex is a materials pass by the mesh.
Set what you want, then look for that, you can get it easily.
2006-12-24 00:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by M.R.Palaniappa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my frnd r from opposite sex & they r real frnd
2006-12-24 01:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by behnoush_k_1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen...I have a few good male friends that know it is just a platonic friendship.
2006-12-24 00:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably because of the way you dress or act towards them,dont be flirty act like a friendly and kind one instead
2006-12-24 00:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably because of the sex thing
2006-12-24 00:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by The Instigator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋