No trust because of some past bad experience but for the same you have also tried your best to get him back in your life but he always abuse you and still have no trust
2006-12-23 23:07:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
"If you love somebody and cant live without that person"
This is a very very common problem. Being so dependent that noone can respect you. Many women just go from one abuser to another. I am sure there is a 12 Step Program to help you. Try Alanon maybe. Try a search for "Abused Women" or "Women who love too much".
I pray for you.
2006-12-23 23:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Russell W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anonymous messages like that are designed to make you feel bad. So the simple solution would be to not respond and not let their words get to you. I have a Tumblr blog, and while it isnt a messaging site you can ask questions anonymously. One time i got one that made me seriously question my relationship, but then i realized it was some jealous ***** and my boyfriend and i have been steady for a year and a half now. Dont let small people get to you, if they really cared and thought it was an actual issue, theyd bring it up in person
2016-05-23 03:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears you are very submissive. Do not confuse true love for a "fix" of it. Learn to stand alone and do not feel you have to endure pain and heartache to feel love that you seek. Think this way, would you really feel complete and happy if this man told you that he now loves and respects you? If your answer is no, then it's you that has the problem, he's just using you.
Trust has to be earned, not freely given.
2006-12-23 23:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person that you are clinging to inspite of his abuse is like a child holding on to a doll for comfort. You need to ween yourself from this by putting more distance between you and him. The irony is that if you didn't cling so much he might not abuse you.
2006-12-23 23:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by taxigringo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that old saying, "love is blind"?
I believe that 'all women have fallen' for men that are bad for us", at one time or another.
( this is normal )
But, there always comes a time during these type of relationships when we realize, "I love myself too much to continue with this anymore."
Your time has come. It sucks during the "break-up." But, they always thank God when they realize what that relationship almost cost them.
2006-12-24 00:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by dearreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need therapy if you feel so addicted to someone who treats you badly.....don't feel bad, it is a common problem usually based upon some deep seeded guilt you feel which may or may not be related to the person you feel attached to....this will also often cause you to avoid someone who may seem "too nice" ..... best of luck
2006-12-23 23:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by devon . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him because people have to respect oneself before other, its basic thing to be a human, since that person doesn't respect you then you shouldn't bother about him unless you don't mind being him not treating you like a proper human should.
2006-12-24 00:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by needhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of this guy before depression kills you. i've been through the same situation before and believe me, if it weren't for my friends, i would have been dead and gone. why be that desperate and hang onto a guy who doesn't even respect you?
2006-12-23 23:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that makes 2 of you.
2006-12-23 23:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, and come work the streets with me,,,,
play that song over and over, by BONO,,,,I can't live,,,,,,,with or without you,,,,,,,
2006-12-23 23:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋