2006-12-23 22:58:37 · 13 answers · asked by mr-why 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Try to look at it philosophically. Not everyone can be at the top. We need fools and idiots. There would be no one to run the government without them.
But then again, why do you accept what other people say about you?
2006-12-23 23:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u serious? Why you take so seriously all what people said about you? Everybody always says good things and bad things towards the others. Open your eyes. It's a super normal human beings we have. Even maybe you, yourself, said bad things and good things towards others unconsciously. So, if everybody says good things about you, you will be totally content and fulfilled. If everybody says bad things about you wanna end your life immediately. What is that? The problem is not with everybody but the problem is in you....
Never take what people say about good things and bad things towards you seriously. People like to see you go up and they also like to see you go down. Good things-bad things are like sun and moon, happiness and sadness, laugh and cry. They get along hand-in-hand together forever. So be stable and firm.
In this life, there is nothing either good or bad, but the thinking makes it so....
If I were you, if everybody says am a fool and idiot... I will show them that they are damn wrong. I prove they r wrong....
I think you need to learn from Madonna. She knows very well how to deal with what people said about her.
2006-12-24 07:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is everybody and what are you crying about? It's hard to understand what you are asking, but sometimes I feel the same way. It's ok to cry, actually it's healthy to cry, but not about everything in the world. Try to elaborate on your question and may be you can get some better responses.
2006-12-24 07:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Da1uWanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont want to kill urself bcoz everybody says ur a fool, but coz u think ur one. Ur what u think u r.U think ur destined for stupidity, its ur state of mind, awakwn the sleeping genius in u, like there is in every each one of us, take this position as a challenge n promise to change ur situation. Say one line to urself,' I dont mind living like a stupid loser for life but I wont kill myself' n things will improve from then on.All u lack is confidence and self-belief, which will come once u make up ur mind, not to give up, and install in urself a burning desire to succeed, all the best
2006-12-24 07:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should just cry. You shouldn't say "goodbye cruel world" because, you would never have had the time to find out if it would all get better.
Talking through problems always helps. There are things in life that are just too difficult to get through alone. remember that you are not alone.
2006-12-24 07:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you say everybody, what do you mean ? I have not said this about you, so who is everybody ?
What has happened to make someone say this about you ?
Start to make things better right now, by learning to use the spell-checker before submitting questions, and exposing your ignorance.
2006-12-24 07:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what really matter is how you look at yourself and not how people are thinking of you.its true sometime, we need to look at people's opinion but are you gonna let that rule your world?think about it, have you done any thing that you are proud of or any thing that is kind, even helping or doing someone a favour?if you did, you are living with a purpose.that means its not a fool.
2006-12-24 07:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by needhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a good role model will help. Can you ask for help?
Sometimes you need to confront someone from the past who put you down. You might do this in your mind if you can't confront them. Realize that it is YOU who are putting yourself down now. Get by yourself and yell, "Get the f*** off my back."
2006-12-24 07:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Russell W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Albert Einstein, the Wright Bros., Henry Ford, George Patton, all spent some time in the "TIME OUT" corner, and were called idiot's at one point (OR MORE) in there lives !
YOU ARE NOBODY !
and "NOBODY'S" PERFECT !
2006-12-24 07:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not cry, learn to make others cry, the ones who say stupid things, by the way, who is anyone to judge you ... just ignore the stupid comments and forgive them cos they are the fools ... keep your chin up...
2006-12-24 07:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by aditigsamai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋