This question stems from a point made by someone answering one of my yahoo questions. This is for all guys out there but especially married men.
2006-12-23 19:49:43 · 17 answers · asked by rcpaden 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess this question is basically ...for married men that have a wife who is interested in sex. Do you frequently turn her away...or do you always want sex. My husband is not interested. No matter what I do. I am looking for advise to save my relationship.
2006-12-23 19:57:18 · update #1
What the rest of do is not important.
I recommend that you discuss this concern with your husband.
First ask if he is willing to talk about something that is important to you. Do not simply ask what his problem is because he may not know that one exists. Make it about you, not him. Say that it bothers you that...
2006-12-23 20:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Ta Dah! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not true! Maybe when I was younger and more foolish (by foolish I mean no rules apply) but as a man and you said married. When the timing is right and she wants to be pleased or when she concedes to sex. It isn't all about me anymore and I still enjoy sex very much and I'm in my fifties. Sex is not the most important thing anymore but it sure comes in handy. I know it doesn't save the world from all of it's problems but it sure makes it easier to live in. Merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 20:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally yes but literally no. We need privacy and the urge. At a young age men are more virile than when they grow older beyond 45 years or so. The mind has a lot to do with sex in later years.
2006-12-23 20:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its true. these married men takes it anywhere anytime and anyone. they have to handle with care! they are fragile ! this is the typical MCP syndrome. for you, you know the answer to the question you have asked.
in an article i read, that 40% of the time, men tend to think sex when working with the opposite sex. i am not sure its true, but i can't subscribe it wrong either way.
2006-12-23 20:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Novatna Dokic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not anytime, not anywhere...
But mosttime and mostwhere...
In other words, several years ago, I was watching a live video of a couple of plane crashes in New York. I would have probably turned down sex at that particular moment...
2006-12-23 19:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jack Schitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me I take sex anytime and anywhere. My wife wants sex 2 to 5 times a day sometimes more often. I give it to her anywhere and at anytime. We've done it in an elevator, parking garage, parking lot, in every room of our house, the garage, the back yard, the front yard, the porch, even on the freeway, we just pull over and do it when ever the desire strikes.
We've even done it in a department store, airplane, my office at work etc.... It's great and exciting.
For me I take it anywhere and anytime.
2006-12-23 20:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Being careful is often good, yet interior the tip, you are going to ought to open up somewhat. I remember while i grew to become into 22 and had my very own place, and that i could no longer *wait* to coach it to all and sundry and all people. Did I convey females there? specific. grew to become into it in straightforward terms for intercourse? No, no longer in straightforward terms. i grew to become into delighted to be solo and autonomous, and that i enjoyed the shown fact that I had my very own place the place i ought to hold close out with pals, have human beings over, and specific, additionally be on my own with a woman or 2. do no longer assume that each and every physique this guy needs is intercourse. You defined your place to him (being a virgin) and he gave the impression to be exceedingly cool approximately it. via now you have talked to him adequate to know despite if or no longer he respects you. If he does, he will make good on his promise to no longer make any fake strikes till you're easily waiting. If I have been you i could provide this guy of undertaking. Your chum does have a ingredient in that he ought to nonetheless holiday to verify you, yet going to his place isn't all that terrible the two. Take issues at your individual %., yet in addition be open to falling for this guy if the chemistry is there. no one remains a virgin continuously. :)
2016-11-23 14:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by ostos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep...if I was not married....and if the girl was a knockout and cared about her...and if it was in the right place right time...and if I would not hurt anyone's feelings.
Err.. I guess not. It appears to be true but the appearance of it is just a manly thing we do.
2006-12-23 19:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Neo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been married in over 12 years, but I would not take it anytime or anywhere.
2006-12-23 20:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me yes, anytime anyplace, if my wife would instigate sex I'd be so turned on, prob is she don't and I'm the one that always gets turned away, She's too tired, it's too late, not in the mood, you name it.
2006-12-24 04:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋