Ive been married for five months. Im twenty one and my husband is twenty seven. I get freaked out a little because I know he wants kids in a couple years, but I should of thought about all this stuff before I got married right? Any advice for me I feel like its the same rotuine with my husband day after day.
2006-12-23 19:19:58 · 10 answers · asked by Capibestboy1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl look imma let you in on a little secret. Men absolutly love it when you show interest in what they are interested in. They beam and shine like pregnant women when you bring up their hobbies. Find out what he likes research it you might just like it too. Then you may have more things to do/talk about together. If you get involved he will feel he has to step up his game and do more things that you want to do. But you both need some things to do alone sometimes. Find a balance.
2006-12-23 19:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by ...huh... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably why he wants kids. Because he probably feels bored too. Just spice it up a little. Pick one day a month, or more often if u want to just go out the 2 of you. Don't like things grow into a routine. Cuz what good will it do even if u have kids and all they see in their parents is two boring people staring at each other. Learn to fall in love with him all over again. Learn to seduce him all over again. Don't lose your first love. keep the fire ablaze.
2006-12-24 03:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already bored then you probably shouldn't have gotten married. You will have to find something to spice things up & bring excitement back to your relationship but PLEASE don't make it a kid. You're relationship doesn't sound ready for kids and if you can't put the hard work into making your marriage work then you're in no way gonna be able to handle the hard work that kids take. Marriage is hard work, constantly but kids are even harder and if you two aren't really doing it for each other right now, kids is just going to make you drift further apart in the romance department.
2006-12-24 03:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 11 years..Children will impact your marriage and you will not have time for yourselves soon, you will have to make the time for yourselves...at this point..you should be getting to know each other and finding what each other likes best..a great convo would be how to raise your future children..Most of all..bordem is a state of mind...Do something..go out together..little romance..so you have a few memories..21..really young..I was married at 19 (first marriage) you are not bored I am sure, you just dont know what marriage is about yet..
2006-12-24 03:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are probably bored. Add more to your life...get a job, join a club, start bowling, fishing or something. You both are too young to be sedentary. Now is the time to start your own family traditions. Like driving around to see all the Christmas lights every year with a cup o' hot cocoa, no matter what the weather.
2006-12-24 03:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Adrienne C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is like this...life is usually a routine of sorts...we want to eat, we have to work...we want to live we have to eat....we want to eat...we have to work....sound like a broken record??? One piece of advise...don't have kids just because he is ready. If you are not ready to be a parent...please do not have children. Probably the problem is your age difference. He was more ready to settle down and be married.
2006-12-24 03:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by rcpaden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up.
Life is not all wonderful and exciting every day. It's the daily routine that IS life. Life is what you make it. Get up, get out and do something with your life.
2006-12-24 03:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready for kids or marriage. Your husband has probably already had an affair.
2006-12-24 03:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bored...Talk to ur husband...you should be able to communicate in a relationship...you will get through it.
2006-12-24 03:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by violet83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married to a BOARD and you ask if that's normal?
2006-12-24 03:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋