just wanted to know if it was okay to do
2006-12-23 19:16:03 · 21 answers · asked by *eAgLe SpIrIt* 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if you wannabe Easy.
2006-12-23 19:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by MFD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you mean being emotionally involved with them (knowing how they feel, that can be different from yours, and allowing them to feel even unacceptably feelings like frustration, disappointment, without changing them), then, NO, don't have sex, if you're not emotionally involved.
The act of sex has an emotional element. You got to feel you are being loved and doing the loving in order for the sexual act to be an experience of a union that surpasses all understanding. No one gets hurt or is asked to do things they are not ready to do yet, even during sex. Sex is inviting, not demanding, nor forced.
I'm not your guardian, so, I'm just giving you my opinion. If you do it, without emotional involvement, be prepared for the consequences. Not that with emotional involvement, there are no consequences, but, without it, the pain is greater.
2006-12-24 04:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's is called recreational sex (sex for the fun of it) as long as both parties understand that there is no emotional involvement, then its O.K!
please be careful
2006-12-24 03:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by madraven77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some will say YES. Some will say NO. But, when looking at the basics of the thing... it really doesn't matter what anyone "thinks."
The only thing that matters is that YOU decide when to have sex, where to have sex, with whom to have sex, and under what circumstances you are willing to have sex.
Never allow anyone to force (or intimidate) you.
2006-12-24 03:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by davidcolyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in... doing a trick? *shrugs* Depends on your values and what you deem acceptable. I personally say... GO FOR IT! Hehe. That is, of course, as long as you are SAFE and that you both realize that sex is all it is.
If you mean f*ck buddy... well, that's cool. Just make sure that you don't get attached because that could get really messy.
2006-12-24 03:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better sign a pre-sexual agreement. with a STD's claus. Then the copyright of any psychological damages caused by songs made popular by the encounter
2006-12-24 03:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are aware of your feelings and you both agree it is just for physical pleasure it is OK. If you are not honest with each other be ready for some (or a lot) of "drama" afterwords.
2006-12-24 03:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, it's only okay if the other person feels the same way about it. if they are emotionally attatched, then it's wrong and you're using them.
if you're both at an understanding that you're only enjoying eachothers sexual company...then i see nothing wrong with it.
2006-12-24 03:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You should only have sex with someone you're married to.
2006-12-26 05:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are not emotionally attached to you, yes. But have safe sex.
2006-12-24 03:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by cats2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is VERY okay.
It is called a "one night stand" and everyone has them.
So shutup, or else all of your preppy little friends will make fun of you.
LOLZ@ME.
2006-12-24 03:18:20 · answer #11 · answered by Keyne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋