my wife wants to trade intimite pictures of us on the net .should i let her do it ...she said it will be ok ..just to spice things up ..what should i do ...
2006-12-23 19:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by acierman2006 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she wants to share them with strangers
2006-12-23 19:19:35 · update #1
she said they wont see our faces
2006-12-23 19:24:15 · update #2
I am 33..ok.. doesshe want to email them to you personally or share them with everyone?
I wouldnt do it..complete and total strangers...that would freak me out a bit..if you do agree blur out your faces..so people you know do happen across them and know it is you
2006-12-23 19:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know l would not be happy about my husband wanting to do something like that. Your intimate pictures should be for your viewing only. I personally think that your wife is a bit of an exhibitionist. I don't think it would spice things up at all but it could mess things up if they got into the wrong hands. If you are not happy about it just tell her NO way !!! If you are ok with it then l guess you go ahead and suffer the consequences. Good luck and have a Merry Xmas.
2006-12-24 03:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can live with it, then the only issue is one of hiding your identity. (There is a reason porn stars often use pseudonyms.) Heaven forbid someone should find out you're having consenting sex with your wife.
If you are not happy with the idea, then say so now. It's better to say 'No' now and rethink the idea at a later time, rather than say 'Yes' and try to get the genie back in the bottle if you change your mind.
A 'halfway' solution is to just use the pictures for personal use, instead of putting them on the net.
2006-12-24 03:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must have seen too much porno on the net, you should remember your wedding vows and stand on it to make it your basis to your relationship, its like the anchor, a boat without an anchor is easily tossed to and fro, you must stand what you believe about the sanctity of marriage, and not just like a hollywood superficial, fake show. i think you should not let her do it, your body is the temple of the Lord and your relationship is sacred or holy in Gods sight, not for entertainment or physical satisfaction/lust.
2006-12-24 05:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO...NO...NO....What happens between a man and a woman in the bedroom should be kept private. Being intimate with each other is a very special thing.
2006-12-24 04:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm. Are YOU into it? I mean, you should both be okay with it before either of you makes a move. If you are into it - all the paramaters should be set in place before any go ahead is issued. Be careful! And good luck!
2006-12-24 03:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by kelimarie72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do this kind of stuff----------I cetainly wouldnt want to. This is something that has to be decided betwen the TWO of you--no one else can make the decision for you.
2006-12-24 14:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are your out of your mind no no no. ..you dont need that much spice.. try instead of making your own home porn with a video cam
2006-12-24 03:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no
It will come back to haunt you.
I promise it will surface when you don't want it too
2006-12-24 03:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not agood thing to do I sure wouldnt let her would uwant that? Keep it to yourselves
2006-12-24 13:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋