actually i want to know is there any pboems of age dif. in marriage specially sex proablem pleple so after 40 my sex become less and gilrs will be around 27 will peak of sex so she may choose another. it it true, please guilde just i cannt take any decision, also tell some other quality of marriage, what type of gilr better a relative or non relative.
2006-12-23 18:56:15 · 17 answers · asked by sony 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i do not have much faith of outside girld. but u say
2006-12-23 18:59:16 · update #1
My husband is 11 years older than me and the sex is still great after all these years. Don't worry about it. If you really love each other then nothing else matters.
2006-12-23 18:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is a 15 year age difference between my husband and I . I too was 23 and the was 36. The sex part if you love each other it never changes. But there are times when I do feel like the age difference does matter Its like he has been there done that and i was still wanting to do things. Please just let her be herself and enjoy each others company but don't mother hen her even though you may be right let her learn the hard way just as you did. I am sure that you can make this work, but there will be hard times just as with any other marriage. Just to let you know my husband is 51 now and I am 36 he is just as great as when I first met him. We have been togather 13 years now. Just remember your love will go through changes cause as years go by she will grow up and speaking from experience she may put a few gray hairs on your head. That's the excuse my husband uses anyway
2006-12-25 08:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by rockerchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's a pretty simple answer to your problem. I'm a marrige counselor and I've found that couples more than 5 or 6 years apart tend to have some very serious differences towards their outlook on life. The physical differences start to become a problem for most couples, and this often leads to adultery on the side of the younger party, usually the woman. If there's any way to steer clear around the marrige and remain mutual friends, I'd advise that most strongly. However, the decision remains up to you. Hope this adds some consideration to this important decision.
2006-12-24 03:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by hobobox234 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many couples with a twelve year age difference. The problem might be if she wants to go out dancing or something and you don't have the energy for it, or if she wants to wait to have children -- you have more wisdom with children when you get older, but less energy.
As to sex, you need to learn what pleases her, and that will be the most important thing you can do.
A non-relative is probably better, but perhaps that is my western way of thinking.
2006-12-24 04:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about the age difference. If the two of you love one another, and remember that communication is the key to a healthy relationship - any sexual 'problems' can be prevented or addressed.
Heck - I've dated women a good ten years younger than myself - and went just fine.
As long as you think she's nummy, and she thinks you're nummy (and again communication is key)
You'll live long happy lives together.
-dh
2006-12-24 03:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people say the age of a man is how is his spirit .. and the age of a woman is how does she look .. anyway i know that our bodies grow and become weaker with years but believe me the difference is not important , if u love each other u will understand each other, if you are close you will be like this forever, and each of you will understand the other one and his needs, dont care for sex, men need longer time than that required for women till they strat losing their desire for sex, so you might reach this time together ,
love makes the life easier !!!
2006-12-24 04:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Geo06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twelve years isn't too bad of age difference, but your concern about sex should be turned to being long term friends, where sex isn't what it is dependent on. When one person is unable, the love from the other person is needed and cherishing your spouse is what is important.
2006-12-24 03:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by desertflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 23. and my boyfriend is in his 40's. Although we don't have plans of getting married, i am soo attracted to him right now i don't even look at other guys. and he loves sex more than anything. He's a ***** dude. haha so don't worry about age. it's really nothing. It's how you do it. F*ck!
2006-12-25 03:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Ravi Belegare is the right person to answer it(famous journalist).Nobody can give guarantee that she may choose or may not another partner.But its you who have to make her believe that you are the right person to her.You have to impro you weakness.Any way my support and wellwishes to your married life.
2006-12-24 06:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bond "James Bond" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is no problem. You won't have a problem with sex either.
2006-12-24 03:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by Amby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋