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2006-12-23 18:53:17 · 19 answers · asked by chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get a grip, :::Hope my advise doesnt get you mad!:::
2006-12-23 18:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strawberry u seem to be making more enimies than friends by this approach. Try to control ur temper and reactions. it does not mean that u dont call a spad a spade, but try to be more circumspect about how u say it.
Sensitive people are generally poor listeners and they react very quickly, mostly before they themselves realise what they r doing and many people try to take advantage of their quick reaction and temper. the only solution can be that u control ur reactions and try to ingnore some of the things at least. Stay cool as much as u can and think twice before uttering anything to anyone. Just try to put urself in the same situation and ask urself how would u feel if someone reacted the same way as u intend to do. Dont be too righteous, although being righteous is a good thing. You just have to slow down ur reactions and be more diplomatic in ur utterances.
By the way r u a taurean? its a typical taurean character.
Good luck
2006-12-27 15:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sumit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are sensitive but people are not/ Dont expect anything from any one. Just ignore/ when u start ignoring the things will get better/ Tomorrow is always an other day dear
2006-12-26 11:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1ce i 2 use 2 b like u ,an angry person. as i also had gone through may b i can help u. for me time changed me.bt as due 2 this people hate u , u go & see ur face in d mirror how u luk when u react.. now i m an optimistic, u 2 try 2 b happy all d time & control ur anger. think tht they r tellin for ur gud or.. tht gettin angry is nt d solution.
2006-12-24 06:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by Muskaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think ten times before you react, hundred times before you speak and thousand times before hurting someone. Being sensitive is no excuse for expressing yourself in a wrong way.
2006-12-25 05:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your sensitive then you need to think about the fact that your words may hurt someone that is sensitive too. i have them same problem at times with being overly sensitive. put other people's feelings first and think before you speak, just because someone hurt your feelings, doesn't mean you should hurt theirs purposely. that makes you a better person, and who knows sometimes ppl don't even know they've hurt you because they don't know your really sensitive.
2006-12-24 03:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by lolabird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are always reacting to situations then you are letting situations control you and aren't in charge of your own life.
If you learn to control your reactions and practice making conscious decisions about your actions, then you can direct where you are going rather than just being tossed about by circumstance.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-24 02:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people appreciate honesty and openness. some don't You're too busy listeniong to the ones that would rather be politicians to hear the ones that want you to be honest.
2006-12-24 02:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you describe things in extremes, which means that you may think in extremes too. it isn't just love and hate. it's love, liking, tolerating, being neutral, being indifferent, disliking and then hating. why worry about everyone when there are only a few really important people in life to worry about?
2006-12-24 17:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its really very easy, speak less & speak good, give a smile to everyone (cz a smile makes a big difference) and give respect to others.
2006-12-24 03:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by like_2b_frank 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try making some sense first. Learn to spell and write, your so called question makes no sense to me.
2006-12-24 02:57:07 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋