What is the best way to reach..?

Question

a self induced orgasm? (im a grl) thank you!

Answer 1

1) Lubricate. A little slipperiness helps everything, and many women don't lubricate, or enough, or as soon as they'd like. Buy some good quality lubricant like KY Jelly and go to town.

2) Get to know your body. Grab a mirror and squat over it or hold it in front of you and get a look at your genitals; look at a diagram of a woman's private parts and recognize what you've got. You might even want to try and locate your G-Spot (perhaps with the help of a toy meant to reach it). It never hurts to become acquainted with yourself, since masturbation is going to include all those parts.

3) Get to know what you like. Get some quiet time alone, unplug the phone, lock the doors, turn on some dim lights, lay down, relax, and start exploring. A lot of people go straight for their genitals, but that's not the only erogenous zone you have. Practice light little touches here and there; figure out what turns you on, since it's different for everyone.

4) Get in the mood. How someone does that is completely different for every person, but think about something that gets you hot. For some, it's a romantic scene from a romance novel, for others, it's hardcore pornography, for most of us, it's somewhere in between. Listen to some Barry White or other music that puts you in a 'I-wanna-f*ck' mood. Think about sexy people or sexy situations, whether they are past experiences you've had, things you've seen on TV or in books, fantasies you've had, about people you know, celebrities, nameless, faceless strangers, fictional characters you create. Nearly all erotic stimulation begins in the mind, and unless you're engaging that aspect, all the whacking away down there isn't going to do anything.

5) Use toys. No, you don't have to have them at all. You can have a rockin' good time with just your own hands. But there are some qualities that are just fantastic about toys- vibration, deep penetration, and so on. Go to a sex store (don't be shy) or order online from a good supplier like Good Vibrations. There are all sorts of things you can do- browse around for dildos, vibrators, clamps, butt-plugs or anal beads, and so on.

6) After that, there's not really much I can say. Masturbation is a very private thing, and what works for one person might not work for another. Just remember to relax, take your time (you don't have to rush through it!), build up erotic pleasure and wait it out, do what you like, engage your fantasies, and you'll have a lovely, intense orgasm.

Good luck!

Answer 2

explore and see what suits you some like it differnt way to other, and every one is differnt i like it rough but other dont its all a personla choice really

Answer 3

ride a Harley its like riding a big huge vibrator-----why do you think girls are always smiling when there riding on a harley

Answer 4

i think you need to figure that out for yourself