k so my guy best friend said he liked 3 girls a couple months ago and i was one of them. now all he talks about is this one girl. everyone tells me i'm a much better person than her yet i can't help but wonder what she has that i don't have. I know this is very bad so how can i not be jealous of her
2006-12-23 18:34:44 · 9 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, girl, I totally feel your pain! I fell for my best guy friend awhile ago, and it was the worst thing I've ever slipped into! Why, just tonight, he and she were sharing the front seat of the car cozily... but really, ask him politely to stop talking about the other girl, change the subject, but above all, get yourself another guy! Meet a lot of new people and try your best to step outside of the little box you've put yourself into! It's going to be hard and but do it! Remember you are of worth and tell yourself "I am gorgeous, I am confident" at least 5 times a day. I know, I know, it sounds totally corny but it helps! NEVER change for a guy!! You are of worth and no guy should ever make you feel otherwise!
2006-12-23 18:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bruschetta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself, he's your best guy friend, but he is not your boyfriend. If you are jealous, its probably because you have feelings for your friend more than just platonic. Be secure in you own person, if you know that you are a better person that her, why should you feel jealous? Accept that its ok for him to like other people and that at the end of the day he will still be your friend whether or not he likes you as a friend or more than that. He may like another girl today but will he still enjoy spending time with her in the future like he does with you???
2006-12-24 02:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jocey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is just a "guy friend" then you shouldn't be jealous of him. It's not that kind of relationship. If you want to be a potential girl friend then that is something completely different. You need to make your move
2006-12-24 02:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things come to those who wait!!! You shouldn't be jealous, he'll realize sooner or later that the best has been standing in front of him the whole time!
2006-12-24 02:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by jdr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on Earth would you want to go with a guy who likes three girls? You think he will just stop liking the other two if he dates you...um no he wont...he is messing with your head, playing games, so get out of it...
2006-12-24 02:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its much better being a best friend. thats what u are. a relationship dies.. but a frenship doesnt most of the time.
so it more reassuring u wudnt lose him. cuz tats the worse tat can happen.
2006-12-24 02:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by zxcv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy to like.
2006-12-24 02:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy or talk to them
2006-12-24 02:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by ghetto fabolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't help it. it's part of your character.
2006-12-24 02:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋