This girl is very decent & simple as far as i know, and she secretly looks at me during classes, during bus journeys, etc. And she lives near my house. My friends say she is a weird kinda girl, and is completely opposite to my persona. But somewhere in my heart i feel she is pretty and sweet. I dont know what to do.
2006-12-23 18:24:56 · 22 answers · asked by Phoenix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your problem seems to be relating with me. Anyways the best thing to do is observe. I wont tell u to go and talk to her as that might seem quite difficult to do. If u talk to other girls in the class ask them wat is her behaviour like? how do she reacts with everybody? but remember DONT ASK DIRECTLY. I this way youll get to know about her and finding a suitable time go and talk to her.Wish u all the very best.
2006-12-25 21:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to approach her gently, my friend. Ask her innocent, neutral questions and slowly build up the conversation until you can ask if you can see her- even among her other friends.
Be polite, non-confrontational, gentle, gentlemanly and be comfortable with yourself- DO NOT put on any act- women hate that. Also don't be worried about your looks or what have you, as most women see beyond the superficial that we men tend to focus on.
The more contact you have with her and the more at ease you make her feel- the better your chances of practicing your Karma Sutra!
Oh I just wanted to add this:
What women look for in men:
Women in research studies reported that a man's looks (i.e his handsome characteristics) are low on their list of desired traits. There are many other male characteristics that are much more important to women. Here are some things that really turn on a woman's unconscious drives for a man:
* Alpha Male confidence and cool controlled smooth movements. Good clothes and good posture with head up, chest out and gut sucked in are a good start for instant recognition as an Alpha Male. We are talking about good male body language!
* Confident and comfortable in all social situations. This shows he can take care of himself, his mate and offspring. More male body language!
* Assertive, yet quiet, gentle and caring. EXAMPLE: Quietly, calmly claiming territory when entering here. That is male body language again.
* Resourceful and capable of providing well for his mate and offspring. Rich is not necessary as long as he can get what is needed for safety and comfort for his mate and offspring. Your body language, plus your clothes and possessions, are a strong statement about your ability to provide resources to a future family.
* Health, cleanliness, overall 'upkeep' of body for a long, healthy relationship. All part of good body language!
* A good sense of humor. This develops camaraderie and enlivens the relationship better than any other single characteristic. (OK, not everything is done with body language!)
Best of luck and Goodwill to All!
Merry Christmas India! Your girls are HOTTTTT!
2006-12-23 22:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ministry of Camp Revivalism 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should open up some lines of communication to find out some basic info about this girl...from this girl. People can maybe tell you that she's weird, or that you two are opposites, but you need to figure out for yourself whether she interests you at all or not.
And maybe if not for romance, friendship is always good too.
2006-12-23 18:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 03:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by boshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hai,friend.
if u r sure that she likes u & watch u.u can ask to her the reason or ask her friends to talk about u before herself.u ask them the reactions what she made during that time.If she smiles u r in her heart as buddy.Ask her friends to scold u in any way in front of her. that time if she argues for yourself there is a chance to have u in her heart.if u find these prevalent u can use this.Bye(ALL THE BEST).
2006-12-23 21:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her start the conversation, talk to her like common friends but don't be too fast let her feel secure before openning some deep feelings she's shy so be the first to make the move it's better that way that's what decent girls think
2006-12-23 23:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she definetly sounds a lot like me.well,she has chances of being real shy and may prentend not to notice you when you show an interest in her,and may be real rude to you sometimes.thst cause she is really defensive and is really unable to accept that you may like her.dont rush her into anything and become freinds slowly.
and opposites attract.negative attracts positive etc etc,
anyway,i feel that she is definetely intrested,but check that she is not intestedin your best friend who is also always near you!!
2006-12-26 06:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by Shilpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she scared ,if she talk to u about u r friendship u dinaied it. so u have to start first,if u want to frnd ship with her with a normal frndship but a wise frndship,then aage dekh lenge. best of luck u got a goooood frnd.for any query plz mail me sweetshiksha00@yahoo.co.in bye do it quick.
2006-12-23 18:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by sweetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be scared of what people may think about her.When you know she likes you why dont you just go and talk to her.Its not that hard you see.
2006-12-23 20:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by im the best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking with her on any topic and later on u can know what she wants and u can ur feelings also
2006-12-23 20:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Kush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋